"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be fun to be around

eddie money

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This is a somewhat obvious tip, but I think some DJ's might find it useful.

Be fun to be around! Think about it, how do you choose your friends? Who do you choose to be around? Most likely these people are ones you perceive to be "fun". Women are the same as us in this regard. They want a man that's fun to be around and they have a good time around.

I think about the time I was getting laid the most. I was a wildman in those days, always having a good time around women. Partying it up every second I had, being the life of the party.

Consider the jackass who tears it up on the dance floor and can't dance worth a damn. This guy has women surrounding him many times. Why is this? He's fun! The guy knows how to have a good time and this is attractive to women.

Now, I realize you can cite many examples where the women are with a total jerk who you wouldn't consider "fun" at all, but in some odd way she probably thinks he's really fun to be around.

I am reminded of my past relationships also, wherein if I got to serious with the girl, things would soon end. When the fun ends, the girl goes in my experience.

So, in conclusion, GO HAVE FUN! (with girls of course). SEE YOU AT MARDI GRAS!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chase Dat Skuht

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How do you keep away from being a goofy idiot but still having fun?

It seems to me that there would be a line between being a dork and having a good time with people and then being laughed at.

I guess if yuore confident with yourself it doesnt matter either way
 

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eddie money said:
This is a somewhat obvious tip, but I think some DJ's might find it useful.

Be fun to be around! Think about it, how do you choose your friends? Who do you choose to be around? Most likely these people are ones you perceive to be "fun". Women are the same as us in this regard. They want a man that's fun to be around and they have a good time around.

I think about the time I was getting laid the most. I was a wildman in those days, always having a good time around women. Partying it up every second I had, being the life of the party.

Consider the jackass who tears it up on the dance floor and can't dance worth a damn. This guy has women surrounding him many times. Why is this? He's fun! The guy knows how to have a good time and this is attractive to women.

Now, I realize you can cite many examples where the women are with a total jerk who you wouldn't consider "fun" at all, but in some odd way she probably thinks he's really fun to be around.

I am reminded of my past relationships also, wherein if I got to serious with the girl, things would soon end. When the fun ends, the girl goes in my experience.

So, in conclusion, GO HAVE FUN! (with girls of course). SEE YOU AT MARDI GRAS!
Hey,

(I got internet connection for a bit of time)

I absolutely 110% agree with this tip. This is a must read tip for every and all DJ's that are out there.

I just talked with my girlfriend (just made it official two days ago :cheer: ) and she said that I was not even the least bit attractive to her the first time that I met her, but as I hung out with her more and more she said that she became attracted to me. Looks? Hell No. Fun? Hell yeah, she said that I added spice to her life that very few people have ever been able to do in such a way that I have.

I just make people laugh and have a good time. Screw looking foolish! You may save pain, but in the same spirit of anything else, regret will be the most painful. So, make mistakes and have fun. Look foolish. You will never get the chance to have fun in that moment. Even now, you won't get that chance.

So, what I am saying is live your life to the max and have fun with it.

Example: I got kicked out of Fuddruckers (sp) for molesting a male statue of elvis. I was just having fun and was making everyone laugh. The manager didn't think the same way.

Just enjoy life.

comic_relief
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being fun and positive is always important...
 
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