Be dominant, a Man..Confused slightly

[jeffthechef]

I've been reading the DJ bible, and i'm slightly confused. If a girl asks you to throw a piece of paper, and you refuse. Wouldn't she think you were rude/mean? I understand that it shows you have a life and your own time but isn't this slight favor a little too small?

 

[Crazy Asian]

ask her what she'll give you in return, with a sly smile of course.

 

[War Against Betaism]

There are a lot of things that I don't agree with the Bible. I don't disagree with its principles, but I don't think its lessons are very flexible. In a situation like that I would look at the girl and then say to her "I hope you're not expecting me to do this every time now" while giving her a smile. The second time you refuse. The whole point in a situation like that is to never show that you'll immediately submit to her orders. Most guys in this situation would have a "Oh yeah sure of course ask me anything else if you need it!" type of vibe. Personally I try to emit that "Okay I'll throw this away for you, but this will be the last time" type of vibe while still being a gentleman about it.

 

[true romance]

Throw the piece of paper at her..provoke..be funny..

Give her something to laugh or upset but she will remember you..Be different !!!

Balls gents !

 

[Sammo]

Dont try and understand it. Chicks are weird and noone really knows what they want, even they dont.

Your right she might think your rude / mean but at the end of the day thats not gonna change the likeliness of her ****ing you (other then increasing it). Thinking you are 'nice' and a pushover.. now thats the stuff that stops you from getting your end wet.