"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Be DESCRIPTIVE - it works!

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Simple and quick tip that will help no end.

When I'm talking about somebody or something - generally telling a short story or something, I add in a little more detail than others before getting to the bulk of the story.

Rather than say "my mate Dave...", I might say "my mate Dave who once did..." or "my mate Dave, he likes...". The funnier and more unusual the comment is, the better.

This will have two main effects on your game.

1) It'll increase social value. If it sounds like you have lots of friends, she will assume you are fun too, and want to enter your fun world.

2) It'll make you a more entertaining person and better conversationalist. Both increase attraction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yeah i also always do that
 
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