"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be DESCRIPTIVE - it works!

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Simple and quick tip that will help no end.

When I'm talking about somebody or something - generally telling a short story or something, I add in a little more detail than others before getting to the bulk of the story.

Rather than say "my mate Dave...", I might say "my mate Dave who once did..." or "my mate Dave, he likes...". The funnier and more unusual the comment is, the better.

This will have two main effects on your game.

1) It'll increase social value. If it sounds like you have lots of friends, she will assume you are fun too, and want to enter your fun world.

2) It'll make you a more entertaining person and better conversationalist. Both increase attraction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah i also always do that
 
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