"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be careful with online dating..

Korrupt

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Maybe it's just the bishes in my area, but I'm getting the impression that 95% of these chicks are in it for the attention and confidence boost and don't actually want to meet up/date/f*ck. Only about 1% of the numbers I get actually go anywhere.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Korrupt said:
Maybe it's just the bishes in my area, but I'm getting the impression that 95% of these chicks are in it for the attention and confidence boost and don't actually want to meet up/date/f*ck. Only about 1% of the numbers I get actually go anywhere.

You post on bodybuilding.com forums. I've seen the same exact wording on the POF thread in a reply.

You've seen what these chicks reply to. The "best" bodies and the most wise ass replies.

Do you not meet people in real life?

Online should only be used as a side thing.

spam out the copy and paste emails and or use the Congratualtions email I made up. Too many "tough guys" are afraid to send it for fear of appearing "faggy" or whatever...But the few I've seen who have... have gotten INSTANT replies.

It's about your pictures and what you send. As long as you go into NORMAL conversation and every so often sprinkle in some sexual innendo they will eventually leave a phone number.

you have to not care if it goes anywhere or not and they will sense it. Never tell them you don't care or anything..Keep the conversations and your replies light hearted and not a care in the world...They'll sense it that way that you don't need them....then they'll see you as a challenge.

If you meet alot of women in real life you wouldn't care if they respond or the emails don't go anywhere..
 

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Yes that's true. I don't care what anyone says but think about it, an average women just has to dress nice and leave her home and she's going to have tons of guys wanting to get with her as it is. Unless there is something really wrong with her why would she need to use online dating anyway?
 
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