"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BE CAREFUL - MOST research is bogus

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Eating dark chocolate help you loose weight. Right now click here for google result for this, and you will be quoted by a counsels amounts of articles research that scientists conducted. Never mind that P was less that 0.5 and three groups of 5 people each were studied.

Watch this video.

In the future, if there are words, scientific research, question how that research was conducted and what was the P.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I concur most data we are fed from any source is skewed and biased. I have heard thousands of them and the one that gets me most, top of the list, is the one from the 70s-80s telling us that carb packed foods should be the biggest portion of our plate.” Eat a big pile of pasta the size of a pile of moose crap, a medium sized pile of veggies the size of a pile of dog crap, and a piece of meat the size of a rat turd.”
 
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If the research was funded by private interests then most likely the results of the research will be to the benefit of the private interest.
 
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