"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Be careful how you treat women
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Holy crap, what a tool, LOL. I love the topless picture he's got of himself showing his pasty ass pear-shaped body, then he's got the balls to list himself as "5'5, athletic build". LMAO! Gotta be a joke page.Holland said:
Oh yes, DrBeard is quite a character. If you've not been introduced to his delusional world yet, I strongly suggest reading some of his posts on here. I promise you, it's worth it!Scrumtulescence said:
Here, I've made it easy for you...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=69823
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well, at least we have gun laws in Britain, or we'd be in BIG trouble! Not that the laws stop that many people.Adone said:I heard it's another pretty rough area, man. Hope you come out of it alive, seen what happens
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Jariel said:Well, at least we have gun laws in Britain, or we'd be in BIG trouble! Not that the laws stop that many people.
that's a problem.
If guns are outlawed, then only outlaws will have guns. This makes things worse than before b/c it puts decent people in a needlessly weak position and gives incredible power to criminals. The ability to possess weapons is critical to maintaining a free society, because a disarmed society is easy pickings for an oppressive regieme. How exactly do you plan to overthrow any potential furture oppressive governements without weapons?
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Who knows? Your a jaded fatty who watches too much Desperate Housewives?Jariel said:
Irrelevant, you telling me your opinion of what a "real man" is not only insulting and kind of funny at the same time but ultimately non related to the question.Jariel said:
I asked you to provide evidence on how you know the guy hates women (which you failed by the way) assuming this story wasnt made up.
Judging by the posts of yours Ive read, the phrase "jaded fatty" is exactly what I think when I picture you! Or rather "jaded fatty with no hope of getting laid" to be more specific.( . )( . ) said:
It shocks me how many "men" here instantly start accusing the female in the situation of lying or deserving this kind of behaviour. You should be ashamed. No woman deserves to be abused!
Granted, the man did not deserve his genitals cut off either. People make mistakes and do some extreme things, especially in the name of love. But the guy is no innocent victim.
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Links?The Truth said:
Put up or shut up gallant Knight fighting for no cause. I want in quotes where you think I said the b!tch deserved to be hit?
No? Apology accepted douche bag. Think a post through next time or your no better off than the tard who posted this made up garbage.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"The fact that this girl attracted a guy who would do such a thing says a lot about her, no?"
"The point is that it takes 2 to tango. She choosed to be with this guy and therefore thats that."
"jeez and those facts cant be right, or shes stupid enough to deserve getting all that shiit"
"it's the girls fault for staying with a worthless prick like him, I don't care if she has insecurities or emotional problems"
"She's apparantly one of those, well, idiotic women who make the conscious decision to stay with such an assh0le, so it's as much her fault that all of that happened to her as it is his."
"The "bad guy" hurt the women, its the women's problem, she should of done something about it."
No apology is necessary because I never accused YOU of saying she deserved it. I referred to you as a "jaded fatty" and unless you prove otherwise, I'll hold back on that apology.
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Just stick to the "you cant get laid" comebacks you fraudulantly exposed asshat.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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IN THE NAME OF LOVE!!The Truth said:
AHAHAHAHA!
It should be "In the name of the AFC getting jealous"
brucevangeorge
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OOOHHH! WHAT A BUUURRN!Jariel said:
We got a 29 year-old funnyman! YA MAN! That was sooooo classy.:wave:
Strange question, but no, she's not my type and I barely have anything to do with her these days.Exp said:
And you my friend buy into all this anti-female propoganda that makes you believe women never tell the truth and they're always plotting against us men to do us harm.
When it comes down to it, the girl is not to blame here. If she did make it all up, then it was guy Bs fault for being so dumb, violent and overreacting. If she was telling the truth then it's guy As fault for being abusive to her.
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HAHAHAHA! You're jokes dude.Jariel said:
Oh so it's the guys fault for being abusive? It's also HER fault for NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT. Ever heard of law enforcement?
And anti-female propaganda? What the hell is that? Oh, you mean THE TRUTH? Suddenly anything that contradicts "the ***** is innocent" is suddenly anti-female.
Pull your head out of your ass. You're a joke dude.
Hahahahahaha!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I will say this.. if a guy does that to me.. he damn well better make sure I am dead, because he will die, make no mistake about it.. you don't cut off my **** and live to tell about it, nevertheless, cut off my **** for a AW,w hcih is basically all she is (no offense dude)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.