"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be Bold When in Set, Conservative, Scary, or Hesitant Game Is Not Rewarded

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Place: The parking lot of Burger King, Richmond, CA

Rex is in the backseat of The NegMan's parents station wagon with Lorraine, (a rather chesty white girl.) We're kissing, Rex is feeling up those big a$$ titties, then inexplicably Rex stops and (in an Allen Iverson "practice," tone, "cuddles," with Lorraine. Rex's rationale is that the BK parking lot is an in appropriate place to be smashing and since Lorraine likes Rex anyway, they'll be another time. Needless to say Lorraine lost interest in Rex and f*cked Terry Parker.

Place: Bryant Park, New York City.

After hearing Charlene exclaim, "God, he's so cute. He takes Charley out for drinks and the two for them wind up in Bryant Park. Charley was giving major co-operation and choosin' heavily. The next logical step was to bounce Charley to Rex's place in order to get to know her carnally. Rex doesn't and Charley eventually gets back with her baby's daddy.

Place: Union Square Park, New York City

After telling Lady Death he was going to take her dinner, Rex and LD are in Union Square Park hanging out. The problem is that LD is far end the bench and Rex is on the other. When the date is over, Rex gets a hug, every time Rex tried to hook up with Lady Death, she blew him off.

Place: Honey's Room, Far Rockaway, NY

Honey is sitting with no panties on while playing Uno. While Honey was undressing, she says to Rex, "Don't mind me, I'm just getting comfortable." In the meantime Rex is wondering does Honey actually want to f*ck, or is a normal routine with her. Rex sets a very bad precedent with this girl that literally lasted for about thirteen to fifteen years and just end in July.

I would say that my second biggest hang up, (after approach anxiety,) is that my game is WAAAY TO CONSERVATIVE and what I listed where the most glaring example of my conservative game at its worst and what it eventually led to, no a$$.

Gentlemen, I don't know whether it was here or if I read it some where else, but a poster so eloquently put that it's better to be shot down for being too aggressive, than for a lack thereof, and Rex can tell you from personal experience, there's usually no recovery from not escalating while you have the chick right there in front of you. It's as if you're subliminally sending a message that you're too scared to make the next move. All the while she's wondering why she's not screaming like a banshee as you give her that Trent Reznor, "Closer," treatment.


As I was discussing with "THE INSECT," he came to realization that he was most successful with women when he didn't lose focus of the goal, and that goal was sex. The moment he did AFC sh*t, he didn't get laid and since "THE INSECT," has some dough, chicks would get cool outings on his dime.

In closing guys, I just want to remember that it's up to you to escalate her attraction for and get her ready to f*ck. After all she wants you as much as you want her, if not more so. You just have to bring those naughty thoughts to her conscious mind. If you don't, then somebody else will, you window isn't open indefinitely.[/b]
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is good stuff Rex. After you gain more female experience and become seasoned in the game it can be painful to look back on your past AFC mistakes. You've inspired me, let me spin a little tale for you:

I was 21 and I started working part time in retail. There was this shift leader that was 27 at the time. In hindsight from day one she was trying to give me the goods. She would make overt sexual comments, tell me how great she was at giving head, loved to fvck etc. She rented a house around the corner from best friend and she would always drop hints that I should come by for a drink and a smoke. One time she lifted her shirt up in the breakroom, exposing the underside of her boobs, to show me the scar from her breast augmentation. {I'm cringing as I write this!} She wanted it BAD Rex!

Now let me ask you this: How many times do you think I ****ed her? None. How times did she give me that good head she bragged about? Zero. How many times did I make out with her? That's right, you guessed it, ZERO!

At the time I knew exactly what she wanted but I was too scared, too nervous, too AFC to make it happen. I would imagine our experiences are in no way rare, many fellas here have stumbled through the same dumbass mistakes we made.

The real question: Did you learn from these mistakes? I know I did and judging by your posts you did too. At the end of the day that's all that matters.

Keep posting Rex, you have some wisdom to share.
 

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apprenticedj said:
This is good stuff Rex. After you gain more female experience and become seasoned in the game it can be painful to look back on your past AFC mistakes. You've inspired me, let me spin a little tale for you:

I was 21 and I started working part time in retail. There was this shift leader that was 27 at the time. In hindsight from day one she was trying to give me the goods. She would make overt sexual comments, tell me how great she was at giving head, loved to fvck etc. She rented a house around the corner from best friend and she would always drop hints that I should come by for a drink and a smoke. One time she lifted her shirt up in the breakroom, exposing the underside of her boobs, to show me the scar from her breast augmentation. {I'm cringing as I write this!} She wanted it BAD Rex!

Now let me ask you this: How many times do you think I ****ed her? None. How times did she give me that good head she bragged about? Zero. How many times did I make out with her? That's right, you guessed it, ZERO!

At the time I knew exactly what she wanted but I was too scared, too nervous, too AFC to make it happen. I would imagine our experiences are in no way rare, many fellas here have stumbled through the same dumbass mistakes we made.

The real question: Did you learn from these mistakes? I know I did and judging by your posts you did too. At the end of the day that's all that matters.
Yeah, I did. My reasons for posting field reports aren't completely altruistic. Yeah, I want others to learn from my mistakes, and I want to improve the overly quality of the threads on this broad, ( which by the way has inexplicably gotten better in the past few weeks, but forgive my digression,)

I post field reports to practice writing and mostly importantly have a written journal of my successes and failures so I know what I did right and what I did wrong.


apprenticedj said:
Keep posting Rex, you have some wisdom to share.
Rex would rather share really raunchy, nasty, and erotic lay reports that involve two (or more) cute, chesty, nice ass havin' (preferably Spanish,) females that were involved in menage action with ole Rex.

Espi said:
I like how you relate your personal experience rather than stats or some esoteric brand of pickup knowledge.
Actually, my personal experiences are "related to some esoteric brand of pickup knowledge." This thread was about maintaining momentum, escalating, and not being a "nice guy." If you notice, my field reports always relates to some theory or school of thought as it pertains to "The Mystery Method".
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Yeah, I did. My reasons for posting field reports aren't completely altruistic. Yeah, I want others to learn from my mistakes, and I want to improve the overly quality of the threads on this broad, ( which by the way has inexplicably gotten better in the past few weeks, but forgive my digression,)

I post field reports to practice writing and mostly importantly have a written journal of my successes and failures so I know what I did right and what I did wrong.




Rex would rather share really raunchy, nasty, and erotic lay reports that involve two (or more) cute, chesty, nice ass havin' (preferably Spanish,) females that were involved in menage action with ole Rex.



Actually, my personal experiences are "related to some esoteric brand of pickup knowledge." This thread was about maintaining momentum, escalating, and not being a "nice guy." If you notice, my field reports always relates to some theory or school of thought as it pertains to "The Mystery Method".
I'm young and I've only done maybe 100 approaches, but I think the Mystery Method alone doesn't work. You have to be well rounded and adaptable to anything that happens. You have to be able to switch it up in a split second. But that's only my two cents backed up by very little experience and lots of observation.
 

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LandingWood said:
I'm young and I've only done maybe 100 approaches, but I think the Mystery Method alone doesn't work. You have to be well rounded and adaptable to anything that happens. You have to be able to switch it up in a split second. But that's only my two cents backed up by very little experience and lots of observation.
So what are you suppose to couple it with?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Espi said:
I like how you relate your personal experience rather than stats or some esoteric brand of pickup knowledge.

It's pretty simple: confidence means more success with women, and your post reinforces that for me.
Thanks, I really appreciate that, especially coming from a broad moderator.
 
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