"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be Better Guys

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tomatoes

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Male grooming is one of the largest grow cosmetic industries....Men are dropping the stereotype of being rough as a coal miner who thinks the best way to pull a girl is being dirty with beer breath.


Men generally dont look after there apperance to a great extent. We concentrate on things we are "allowed" too without looking gay. Vainity is ok. You want to look better.....Thats your choice. I recent started going to the local tanning salon. Its very much a women thing but if it gives me a gold tan that makes me look better or at least makes me think i look better.....whos it going to hurt?

That site seems quite good. Looks like its making normal blokes into something a little more intresting. Problem is it will neiche your market in pickup.

I will tell you why i think this.


EG. Im a well groomed well built guy. I have a pretty good track record with girls and a good rep in the sack (Always helpful). However I was in the local pub the other night. There was a new girl there.....Single. Fair looking. I wasnt overly intrested but the fellas around me were. I put my foot in very sutley and took control of her attention. Purely to show i was the alpha....

Anyways the night progresses and I got bored and went to talk to people elsewhere in the pub. She got with 2 fellas that night. (Bit easy tbh) Only reason she didnt get with me im told is because she thought i was out of her league ( I wasnt going to make a move but would have responded if she did). Relationship wise shes right....

All im saying is dont make yourself too good a catch or it will have the negative effect. Girls have low self esteem so the last thing they want is a guy whos is "out there league" as it makes them look bad.
 

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Tomatoes said:
ts very much a women thing but if it gives me a gold tan that makes me look better or at least makes me think i look better.....whos it going to hurt?
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