"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be an A-hole

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Alittude

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Guys if you're looking for something new to try then just act like a complete A$$hole. Now of course don't do this to a chick you actually like but to some random girls this will work wonders. Last night I did it completely unaware and it worked wonders even though I wasn't interested in the girl by the end of it she was physically touching me all over.

Give this a try guys if you want and see how your results are.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you want to try something totally different, try growing up.
 

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Take it from me - Being an a-hole is lots of fun. If you look at most succesful people in the world, whether in business or in politics. They are all usually a-holes: Trump, Cheney, Martha Stewart just to name a few.

You know you're doing a good job as an a-hole if you can sleep with a woman easily - but her friends all hate you.

I'll give you a great example:

- I used to have this habit of getting drunk and having my ex-girlfriend pick me up at 3AM. I would then fuk the sh1t out of her and piss all over her bathroom. Her roommates hated me.

- After I dumped her the roommates would see me out and brag about how her new boyfriend was so much nicer to her. I then asked how he was nicer. They said he would take her to expensive dinners and then on the weekends he would even clean their bathroom!!! What a CHUMP!

The honest truth was that my ex still calls me up wanting me back. Trust me, being an a-hole is more fun.
 

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JPFromTally said:
If you look at most succesful people in the world, whether in business or in politics. They are all usually a-holes: Trump, Cheney, Martha Stewart just to name a few.
Don't forget this guy :eek:


Seriously though, your example doesn't work as there are equally as many people who made it successful without being a-holes: Bill Clinton, George Clooney, Stephen Hawking, Bill Gates to name a few at random.

I strongly believe that charisma is much more alluring than being a jerk, and my popularity in life and my ability to attract people generally proves how well it works for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'll have to agree with the other guys:

If you want to try something totally different, try growing up.
 

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You're crazy man... the ******* thing is over-stated, it's aim is to get guys out of the nice guy phase by giving them the extreme opposite...

You've got to identify what your niche is and play it... I met up with this 21 yr old chick tonight for the first time, took her home to my place and fvcked her brains out... I wasn't an *******, I played the English gent thing to a tee... I know what I wanted to do, I told her where to sit, and I knew that in a couple of hours we'd be in a taxi back to my place to fvck... most people get it twisted though, chicks eat up those traditional kind of things, but they think that running that kind of game is letting the chick choose everything... nah, you've got to take control that is the central point to this... as fvcked up as *******s are, they take control, but the two are not exclusive to each other... you don't have to be an ******* to be in control and get the chicks you want...
 

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HA!

Bill Clinton was a sociopath and a sexual deviant who cheated on his wife and was a ruthless, albeit brilliant politican. He was a master manipulator and his deceit is only rivaled by the current administration.

Bill Gates, the best businessman in history, was more of a plagiarist than an innovator. His success came from stolen ideas (DOS, Windows, etc.) or just merely buying out his competition. Stories of his bad temper, frequent tantrums and berating of employees is widely circulated.

Stephen Hawking is twice divorced and is accused by some of having a god complex. Before his illness he was pretty pompous - interrupting lectures when he disagreed with the speaker. You can see a great article about him here: http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/story/0,,1579180,00.html

George Clooney is a straight up pimp and admire the fact that he never wants to get married. However, he is a pompous liberal a-hole akin to the likes of Al Gore... or let me guess ... you think Al Gore is a saint too?

Dude, you don't know these people personally and you're obviously influenced by their public personas. Next time, dig a little deeper.
 

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JP: What killed Bill Clinton's career? It wasn't his charismatic public image, that's for sure.

My point is, they don't go round acting like assh0les and their public image is what put many of them where they are. If they have been exposed for something bad, then they are successful in spite of that, not because of it.

Sometimes we all have to be a bit underhanded, but there's a difference between doing what we need to do and showboating your disrespect and ignorance, and acting like a pr!ck for all to see.

As for acting like a jerk to get women, that's supplication and weakmindedness.
 

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Does being an @sshole really mean being bitter and jealous so you get a piss poor attitude to try to make yourself feel better?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not this conversation again.

You can look this topic up in the archives. I think it's called Nice guy vs Jerk.

Anyway, this topic has been beaten down and stomped on. Feel free to go to the archives to revisit it.
 
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