"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be a real man - live with chivalry

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Live with chivalry

I'm not talking about putting girls on a pedastal. No way, no how.

I'm talking about living with class and honor. Why? Because you are a man of self-respect.

There are things that *boys* do, that you refuse to do.

There are low standards of behavior that *low quality girls* have, yet you simply refuse to stoop down to their level.

You are better than that.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49Yzx06RLUo

Ignore product placement at the end
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Proselytiser said:
This just sounds like a variation on the old 'I'm not like the other guys' tactic.

Edit: no real man ignores Chivas Regal
Of course. You have to be *not like other guys* though in a good way of course. After all, the average guy is a chump.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think your risking a move to the wrong side of the mean, Trader

The invisible man he talks to says its okay to be a few standard deviations from the mean just as long as he can recruit more people to his cause.
 

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you lost me at "be a real man" which is a term that grinds my gears. I only hear this from women trying to get you to do what they want, and manginas complaining that you aren't being a pvssy boy like them.

As for living with Honor, that's part of being a man, but not everyone deserves your honor. It's only for family , friends and those who have proven themselves as valuable team mates. Everyone else deserves polite indifference at best and total destruction at worst.
 

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Proselytiser said:
This just sounds like a variation on the old 'I'm not like the other guys' tactic.

Edit: no real man ignores Chivas Regal
Ha ha. :crackup:
 
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