"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Be a man" ?????

eggnawgkid

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Yea so I went to homecoming with this chick a week ago and then we went to the movies last night and I can tell she really likes me. All I did was bust on her all night and make sarcastic comments, etc. Anyway lots of times when she asks me something or wants something from me and I don't tell her or give her a straight answer she will say "be a man." For example a few different times over the week she would ask me my scores on different tests in school and I would be like "tell me first" and she would say "no you tell me first" and we'd go back and forth a couple times. Then she'd just say "be a man" and I never know how to respond to that. It always catches me off guard because I'm not being wussy at all so I can't really change to start being a man if that makes any sense. So what's a good CF comeback to "be a man"? I've thought about it several times and come up with nothing. I'm sure she'll say the same thing the next time I talk to her so I'd like to know how to respond to that. Thanks for the help guys, sorry if you think this post is retarded.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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immrtlwun

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With the test score thing, when she says, "Be a man" respond with something like, "Be a woman, ladies first." In general, say "Last time I checked, I was," then look down your pants and say, "Yep, still am."
 

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Theres is a lot say " Ill be a man then" show her your biceps while saying this. " So how do you like them."
 
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