"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be a Man, and how you should view women

JdelaSilviera

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I don´t know if you saw "The pickup artist" on tv, with Mystery.

I must tell that mystery is really a guy who must be very smart, because of the way he sees things. One of the first things he did with the newbies was sending them to a casino with old women. Old women, were once (some at least) young hot sexy chicks, if you have no problem speaking with old women you shouldn´t have speaking to younger ones.

This is nothing new, but another thing about guys who are successful with women is that they really don´t give a sh*t. I know a few guys like that, one of them had once a girl telling him he was ugly, but his disrespect with women is so great that he just laughed hard, as if he had listened the biggest joke ever, or like he was listening to a retard who doesn´t know what is saying.
I´m becoming a little bit more like that, to the point I don´t care when I´m rejected, because my value is not decided by a chick.

Other thing about not giving a sh*t is to stop worrying about chicks and love... this is really for girls, and it´s completly homo or ***** like to think about women all the time. Your first goal should be to become a great man in what you do. A man of worth and value, a man of greatness.

When you become very good with women, you won´t care anymore.

If you need any inspiration about being a man just watch rocky vs drago http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anEQKhh3hlg&NR=1 ;)

These guys wouldn´t be hanging around on sosuave, think of a man you admire and become like him. Enough of gossiping about what b*tches like, 90% of them are overweight by the age of 20 they won´t make you happy by themselves..... they will come to you when you become great.... and even then you shouldn´t care. Most relationships won´t last, but your greatness as a man will.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JdelaSilviera said:
I don´t know if you saw "The pickup artist" on tv, with Mystery.

I must tell that mystery is really a guy who must be very smart, because of the way he sees things. One of the first things he did with the newbies was sending them to a casino with old women. Old women, were once (some at least) young hot sexy chicks, if you have no problem speaking with old women you shouldn´t have speaking to younger ones.

This is nothing new, but another thing about guys who are successful with women is that they really don´t give a sh*t. I know a few guys like that, one of them had once a girl telling him he was ugly, but his disrespect with women is so great that he just laughed hard, as if he had listened the biggest joke ever, or like he was listening to a retard who doesn´t know what is saying.
I´m becoming a little bit more like that, to the point I don´t care when I´m rejected, because my value is not decided by a chick.

Other thing about not giving a sh*t is to stop worrying about chicks and love... this is really for girls, and it´s completly homo or ***** like to think about women all the time. Your first goal should be to become a great man in what you do. A man of worth and value, a man of greatness.

When you become very good with women, you won´t care anymore.

If you need any inspiration about being a man just watch rocky vs drago http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anEQKhh3hlg&NR=1 ;)

These guys wouldn´t be hanging around on sosuave, think of a man you admire and become like him. Enough of gossiping about what b*tches like, 90% of them are overweight by the age of 20 they won´t make you happy by themselves..... they will come to you when you become great.... and even then you shouldn´t care. Most relationships won´t last, but your greatness as a man will.
Real talk.
 
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Now on when I go up to girls I say:


''Hey!!.....................I must break you!!!''

lmao thats my new chat up line for sure
 

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Having an unshakeable attitude towards life is a must. At all times you have to be standing on solid ground.

Truth is, when a man cares too much about getting good responses from women or becomes too concerned with whether or not women like him he is bound to end up being a supplicating AFC. I believe that if you spend time unlocking your potential to the point where you know you ARE the sh*t women have no choice but to acknowledge that you ARE the sh*t.

Like you said:
"Most relationships won´t last, but your greatness as a man will."

I'd rather have a life, than to make a woman my world
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
I´m becoming a little bit more like that, to the point I don´t care when I´m rejected, because my value is not decided by a chick.

I love it. That's signature thread worthy :up:

If you need any inspiration about being a man just watch rocky vs drago http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anEQKhh3hlg&NR=1 ;)

Best movie ever.
Great post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Masculinity

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+1 Rep for this thread :rockon:
 

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Great. Let's sticky that somewhere.
 

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I hate how us men have to have the right attitude in order to be a man, but women just have to look the right way
 

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Gamtiwia said:
When a man cares too much about getting good responses from women or becomes too concerned with whether or not women like him he is bound to end up being a supplicating AFC.
Amen brotha. If that doesn't deserve a rep then I dunno what does.

That is really what it comes down to. The point where you feel the need to GAUGE THEIR INTEREST LEVEL or TRY TO GET THEM INTERESTED IN YOU is when YOU LOSE.
 
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