"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be a Jedi

Appoloin

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It has been awhile since I have posted or replied to anybody. I have moved on with my life. Indeed to bigger and better things. I have a new beautiful woman, a new job, a new car all in four months. It has been awhile but before I log out for awhile again I would like to share some knowledge. I have finally gathered my thoughts enough to sum up the best Don Juan technique and advice in the world in my opinion. The best advice I can give back to the community is just in three words Be A Jedi. Learn to be a Jedi apply his principals his philosophy to every aspect of your life and woman will flaunt to you, men will look at you like a God, and life will just be simply amazing. And If you ever find yourself in a sticky situation than just ask yourself this one question. What would a Jedi do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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moneyisking

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who is jedi? like the star wars thing? how that have to do with being a player?
 

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Appoloin said:
It has been awhile since I have posted or replied to anybody. I have moved on with my life. Indeed to bigger and better things. I have a new beautiful woman, a new job, a new car all in four months. It has been awhile but before I log out for awhile again I would like to share some knowledge. I have finally gathered my thoughts enough to sum up the best Don Juan technique and advice in the world in my opinion. The best advice I can give back to the community is just in three words Be A Jedi. Learn to be a Jedi apply his principals his philosophy to every aspect of your life and woman will flaunt to you, men will look at you like a God, and life will just be simply amazing. And If you ever find yourself in a sticky situation than just ask yourself this one question. What would a Jedi do?

:rockon: trolling and satire simultaneously. Bravo.
 

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moneyisking said:
who is jedi? like the star wars thing? how that have to do with being a player?
I think the OP is saying you need to inject Star Wars material early and often into conversations with the opposite sex....
 

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I knew a guy who tried to be a jedi...didn't work out for him to well
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I guess maybe if you equate being a jedi to being confident. Then you might make sense.
 

DJDamage

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Luke Skywalker was rejected by princess Leia in favour of the badboy Hans Solo (before even knowing that he was her brother). As a matter of fact, Luke never got laid but prefered hanging around two robots with one robot that happened to be gay.

Young Darth vader at least porked Natalie Portman but he embraced the dark side.

Be Hans Solo or embrace the dark side and screw the force.
 

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Dude, Jedi's are passive and only do things when its called for, every normal feeling they have is supressed. Its like a man brought up to be a priest.

I think you mean be a Sith.

I mean hell, look at Big-Papa-Palpatine. Nuff said.
 

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you r-tard, jedi's are forbidden from being with a woman, so you might as well ask what would a priest do. Sith all the way, whose more alpha than Darth Maul and Vader?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage said:
Luke Skywalker was rejected by princess Leia in favour of the badboy Hans Solo (before even knowing that he was her brother). As a matter of fact, Luke never got laid but prefered hanging around two robots with one robot that happened to be gay.

Young Darth vader at least porked Natalie Portman but he embraced the dark side.

Be Hans Solo or embrace the dark side and screw the force.
Yeah, I remember when the first Star Wars came out. I would beat off to pictures of Princess Lela for hours. My trapper keeper ended up smelling something awful. Reason was because I made a slit in it and placed a picture of her in it. Would beat off onto the keeper as soon as it was time for lunch. I would then wipe it off before I placed my cheetos on it.
 
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