"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Be a girl for 2 min
- Thread starter Maxtro
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Eaglecreek
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bumping outta respect
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
haha that was good, sometimes I do catch myself doing the head nod and the smile like that dude at the 0:25, I really need to cut that down, it makes one look like a douchebag.
Also the popping out of no where and surprising a girl with a line as she is walking is weak.
Is it any wonder why hot chicks act the way they do?! they are treated like celebrities.
Also the popping out of no where and surprising a girl with a line as she is walking is weak.
Is it any wonder why hot chicks act the way they do?! they are treated like celebrities.
Half those guys at the bar, would have there heads in there pints hoping she would just talk to them.Maxtro said:
Most wouldn't dare being so obvious about there intentions -
The weak line guy would happen though! But the guys at the bar when she walked in?! Nope does not happen - if anything they'd look like simpering wimps!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I love it! That's why alot of the strippers around here don't bring money to bars or have full time jobs lol! I'm not sure what area this thing's based in but there is a basis for comparison in almost any local with identical results.
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
that was funny as hell.
just like the guy in the vid i do the head nod, but only when bumping into an acquaintance and neither of us are gonna stop the other and have an conversation.
not putting a woman on a pedestal and treating her like a celebrity is definitely the #1 rules when dealing with women.
just like the guy in the vid i do the head nod, but only when bumping into an acquaintance and neither of us are gonna stop the other and have an conversation.
not putting a woman on a pedestal and treating her like a celebrity is definitely the #1 rules when dealing with women.