"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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G Rambo34

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What is the "game" like in San Francisco and the rest of the Bay Area? What are the women like? Are they approachable? Im from NYC, so I feel pretty confident when dealing with most women, since NYC girls are pretty much the most controversial I've noticed. Ill be in SF in a couple months for a week, and I would like to pick up some decent girls. Im in college. What are the girls like at SFSU or U of SF? any advice on the women here would be greatly appriciated
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken785

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I find the quality of women to be lower as far as looks standards. if you want bombshells go to la/oc.
 

Pathgen

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There are a lot of asian girls here. Not a problem if you like that, which i do.

Ken is right on the fact that the girls in la are ussually hotter. Plus its not as cold so they wear less clothes. However, there are a lot of good looking girls around here in my opinion. They are probably more approachable i would say then in L.A.
 

Duffdog

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Theres lots of athletic "hip" girls in SF. Most people walk everywhere, so the girls generally look more in shape than in other places like the central valley. But ya, if you like asian girls...theres so many. And if you are into crazy looking white girls that wear spikes and have blue hair, theres a fair amount of those too. I find that the quality women hang out at places like Ruby Skye and the other high end clubs.
 
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