"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bay Area Mall Sarge!

Damian

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This sunday, November 20th, I'm going to go sarging at the Westfield Valley Fair Mall in Santa Clara with one of my wingmen. Anybody who wants to come is welcome, but do try to RSVP, so you know where to meet up.

2855 Stevens Creek Blvd
Santa Clara, CA 95050

The Mall officially opens at 10 AM.
I will be there with my wing at around 11 AM and I'll be leaving just before 3 PM. You can stay as long as you want or need to.

Tip: We'll be practicing cold approaches, so if you need a bit of help in that department, join us! Dress nicely!

I'll be updating this thread with more info as the plans become clearer and I get a better sense of how many people are coming.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wheelin&dealin

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I lived in San Jose for a few months and I would always prowl that mall. It was a good mall for chicks. I got a few numbers but nothing came of it. I took one of the girls out but she was a tad bit crazy. Good luck man. I find that on weekends, malls will be the busiest at around 1 or so. More people = more women.
 

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Just curious, how well did you guys do?
 
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