"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Battling Social Anxiety

~Vortex~

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I already posted this but I made some minor updates on the e-book. I also made a simple website where you can download it.

Check it out here: http://www.social-anxiety-solution.com/

If you think you have some social anxiety issues, check it out and I'm sure you'll not be disappointed.

And again, it's completely free. I specially like to hear some comments/criticism about it, so I can update and improve it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in the Mood

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This looks like a really nice resource Vortex! There aren't many programs out there that discuss social anxiety specifically, so if you can get your name out there you'll do pretty well marketing-wise. As you said, 5% of America has some form of social anxiety. That's 5% of over 300 million people! Hopefully they will find your book somehow.

I'll read it and tell you what I think,
Cheers
 

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I've just read through the book. It has some unique tips and insights that I like. For example, starting a topic with "hey...", or practising voice intonations, or to exercise the smile muscles infront of a mirror.

I guess these advice or tips will stand to the test for an SA sufferer when in the presence of an hb10+.
 
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