Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Battling Social Anxiety

~Vortex~

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I already posted this but I made some minor updates on the e-book. I also made a simple website where you can download it.

Check it out here: http://www.social-anxiety-solution.com/

If you think you have some social anxiety issues, check it out and I'm sure you'll not be disappointed.

And again, it's completely free. I specially like to hear some comments/criticism about it, so I can update and improve it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in the Mood

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This looks like a really nice resource Vortex! There aren't many programs out there that discuss social anxiety specifically, so if you can get your name out there you'll do pretty well marketing-wise. As you said, 5% of America has some form of social anxiety. That's 5% of over 300 million people! Hopefully they will find your book somehow.

I'll read it and tell you what I think,
Cheers
 

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I've just read through the book. It has some unique tips and insights that I like. For example, starting a topic with "hey...", or practising voice intonations, or to exercise the smile muscles infront of a mirror.

I guess these advice or tips will stand to the test for an SA sufferer when in the presence of an hb10+.
 
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