"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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battle_sheep

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Some info:

6'4" 337 pounds
Ive was lifting and trying to lose the fat before my ankle broke playing football.

I will be doing a keto diet, and also using FitDay to track what im eating, 30g carb limit

My pictures:

http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/1724/55462622.png
http://img696.imageshack.us/img696/2046/35633381.png

:rockon:

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Jan. 4, 2010


All workouts are 3 sets 5 reps (it was supposed to be 6 reps but I messed up, no big deal though)

Bench Press - 160lbs

Bent over row -135lbs (form is all over the place with this, will transition to dumbbell rows on a bench)

Bent over rope tricep extension - 57.5lbs (http://www.criticalbench.com/exercises/pics/overhead-cable-extension1.jpg)

Ab work - 3x10

Yeah thats pretty much where im starting right now, props to Quag for the exercises and everyone who helped in my previous thread :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good to see your Journal on here, make sure to post your diet up here everyday and take one a pic a week (sametime,place, lighting) as well as weigh yourself once a week at the same time. Post the results here this will help us figure out what tweaks we need to make to diet/cardio.
 

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Looks good. Don't sweat 5 reps, do that if you want.

You'll be under 300 in no time if you are consistent, good luck.

Quagmire
 

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Thanks guys, also what are the side effects of low carb? Ive heard about headaches, bad breathe, etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jan. 6, 2010


Overhead press - 95lbs - 3x5

Pulldowns 3x6 - 145lbs - 3x5

Bi curls (cable) - 55lbs 3x10

Ab exercise 3x10


Diet:



Question: for my weight, is 2500 calories enough or is that considered under eating?
 

battle_sheep

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Hey guys, would I shift out of ketosis if I were to eat more than a few grams of carbs per meal? I had dressing with a chicken salad this morning and total came out to 21g of carbs, I heard somewhere this would take my body out of keto?
 

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Any cardio? At least throw 10 - 15min in a day if you're trying to lose some weight bro.
 

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Got the "you look skinnier" and "did you lose weight?" comments today, nice boost of confidence there, ive only been on the diet for a few days, are the results showing that quickly? Anyhow, I just wanted to bump this post because I will be updating it with my workout tonight
 

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MY diet isnt working at school

When I was on break i was eating REALLY well, once school started, I dont eat for 8 hours, and im getting nowhere.

Im buying protein powder for breakfast b/c I cant really eat in the morning, idk, I dont want to give up, and I wont, but school is a big problem right now
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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battle_sheep said:
MY diet isnt working at school

When I was on break i was eating REALLY well, once school started, I dont eat for 8 hours, and im getting nowhere.

Im buying protein powder for breakfast b/c I cant really eat in the morning, idk, I dont want to give up, and I wont, but school is a big problem right now
Dont get discouraged...only bad things can happen if you think negative. You will just have to find a way.

Try getting a big lunch box and carry it with you all day. Here is one that you can easily put a whole days worth of food into.

http://www.amazon.com/WorkZone-Compartment-Lunch-Cooler-4200-02RYL/dp/B000WYGXM8

If you dont want to lug it around, do you have a Prof that you know well? Or maybe a department secretary in the dept that you major in? If so, you can ask to use the faculty lounge (I assume they have one).They will probably have a microwave too.

If you cant do this, there must be a microwave somewhere on campus. Get a locker in the gym, keep your food in a cooler and your good to go.

There is more than one way to skin a cat man, but it may be very inconvenient no matter how you do it. But if you are serious you will put in that extra bit of effort and do it. Good luck, and dont start looking for excuses because then it will be too easy to give up. Cheers!
 
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