"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bat Crazy

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Hello Everyone...
I'm new at this so bare with me... I thought I might find someone to talk to since my husband spends all his time on facebook flirting with other women.. so, I need some advise from perfect strangers to see if I am "bat crazy".
My husband has sent money via paypal to women on facebook that he flirts with. He has also sent them starbucks cards. He constantly tells them how pretty they are and can't wait to engage in some sort of conversation with them. He says because they live across the country I shouldn't be concerned. Well, one of them lives close by and I can tell she is looking for the bigger better deal. I am not unattractive. I still turn heads but I have never engaged conversation. My husband and I have not been intimate in over a year.. he has no interest due to "low T". I have asked him to see a doctor but he doesn't make the appt. He says I'm bat crazy because I get upset seeing the likes and attention he gives these other women. When I try to talk to him about it.. he gets mad. Am I bat crazy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Peaks&Valleys

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I'm giving this a 50/50 shot that this is not a troll post, being optimistic.

I think the proper term is "bat SH!T crazy". Are you located in the U.S.?

And no, I do not believe you are crazy for being upset at your husband for sending money to and flirting with other girls online. And your husband is probably being scammed by these girls across the country. So you are in the right.
 

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Yep, Orange County California.. and things have gone from bad to worse. Looks like 16 years down the drain.... :( I busted him on trying to hook up with her. I don't understand it. She's not that pretty. She's on welfare... and she's stupid. It was because of her I busted him. I haven't slept in over 24 hrs. My stomach is so upset I feel the urge to hurl ... I know he hasn't done anything with her yet.... but the fact he's trying is killing me. I don't think I can trust him anymore. He feels bad about himself. He's gained a lot of weight and is starting to bald. I know when he flirts and gives them money he feels like a hero. I've tried to do special things for him, but he's afraid I will want him to perform and he can't. I've tried getting him to the doctor, but I think he doesn't even want the doctor to know. I've gone without for over a year... I've adjusted. The other night I thought I would send her a message on facebook. She immediately sent him a message on facebook telling him. So I waited for his reply... expecting to see "she's the jealous type" imagine my surprise to see "sorry", if your still interested give me a call with his phone number. I went bat **** crazy... told him to get out of my house... were done.
 

Kailex

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This has got to be a joke...

What self-respecting person would actually want to stay in a situation like this? Oh wait...
 

mv.89

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What I don't understand is that he's doing opposite of what we learn here and still getting results ? lol buying them starbucks and sending money
He ain't getting anywhere, soon he'll be tired running like a dog and come back home. (metaphorically)

Now if this is a troll post then damn wtf ! too many of those these days !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Duke

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Zhanie said:
Hello Everyone...
I'm new at this so bare with me... I thought I might find someone to talk to since my husband spends all his time on facebook flirting with other women.. so, I need some advise from perfect strangers to see if I am "bat crazy".
My husband has sent money via paypal to women on facebook that he flirts with. He has also sent them starbucks cards. He constantly tells them how pretty they are and can't wait to engage in some sort of conversation with them. He says because they live across the country I shouldn't be concerned. Well, one of them lives close by and I can tell she is looking for the bigger better deal. I am not unattractive. I still turn heads but I have never engaged conversation. My husband and I have not been intimate in over a year.. he has no interest due to "low T". I have asked him to see a doctor but he doesn't make the appt. He says I'm bat crazy because I get upset seeing the likes and attention he gives these other women. When I try to talk to him about it.. he gets mad. Am I bat crazy?
You haven't told us the "other" side of the story! But being female, I am not surprised. Its obvious your husband has enough "T" to seek out other girls. So why isn't he seeking you? I bet its because of how you behave. There is something that led him down this path.
 

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Before you divorce him, which is what you should do, get him to send me a Starbucks gift card.

Thank you.
 
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