bassik's problems please advise

[Bassik]

i have a HUGE problem in gettin in the frame of mind. i cant just go out and sarge! if i go out to sarge i freeze and feel every set is closed. one i start having fun with mates or when i dont meen to sarge i get results.

last nite i when out with my wing and hit a private party i found things were goin ok as i was in the party mode, once i started approching i found that i was accepting ****ty excuses to end the convos i was in (one set contained couples and things were gettin good untill a jealous BF came and tryed to expose me an act alpha by publicly goin through each girl in the group and listin why they wernt avaliable:cuss: ) we then hit the pubs and clubs and i couldnt open any sets unless i knew they would go nowhere.

later when we just chilled an called an end to our ****ty sarge i found a HB7 measuring me up and we started talkin and i got a number close!!

i know i can pick up but i cant go an make a game of it yet. i want the rush

please help!

 

[WC2]

I hate the word sarging.

You don't need to be sarging. That implies that you aren't interested in women all the time, so you pick a night to hunt for them. Do you think men who get play, only get it on the nights they plan to?

Take an interest in women. Be on your game all the time. You should be sarging all the time. Whether it's the hairdresser cutting your hair, the cute girl you see at the mall, or the girl working the cash register at Best Buy.

You can't condense your learning into sessions. Talk to women because it's enjoyable. Not because it's a chore, because believe it or not, when you learn what women enjoy, it is very enjoyable for yourself.

Next time you go with your mates clubbing or what not, while they are sarging, you're implementing what you do all the time.

If you can't enjoy it, then why do it?

 

[Vypros]

I hate the word sarging.

You don't need to be sarging. That implies that you aren't interested in women all the time, so you pick a night to hunt for them. Do you think men who get play, only get it on the nights they plan to?

Take an interest in women. Be on your game all the time. You should be sarging all the time. Whether it's the hairdresser cutting your hair, the cute girl you see at the mall, or the girl working the cash register at Best Buy.

You can't condense your learning into sessions. Talk to women because it's enjoyable. Not because it's a chore, because believe it or not, when you learn what women enjoy, it is very enjoyable for yourself.

Next time you go with your mates clubbing or what not, while they are sarging, you're implementing what you do all the time.

If you can't enjoy it, then why do it?

I agree. Pretty solid post.

To add:

I assert that you have inner things that need taken care of before you start trying to hook up with girls. Take some time and focus on you, build your life up, and concentrate on having fun. You don't always have to be pushing yourself towards women. Get involved in some things where you can meet people, work on your social skills, get inside your head and get your head right to where you enjoy life whether you are chasing women or not, and THEN watch as you just "naturally" are social and picking women up is like second hat.