“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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basic movements or isolation? HUGE by FLEX

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Just ordered this book called HUGE by Flex and I started the isolation based mass gain because I've been working out for years now and I didn't need to go through the first four week period.

Problem was: I got so sore I couldn't even move almost and school and work SUCKED because I hurt and had no energy.

Should I - go to the first four week period which works out every muscle three times a week so my muscles can get used to the heavy isolation exercises..... or continue with the thirteen week mass gain and hope that I don't get as sore with each workout as I progress.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's only natural to isolate a muscle you want to get bigger, pump it up and see it bigger, to assume this is the answer.

Probably after only many years of frustration do you turn to compounds thinking you'll give anything a try. Only to find that elusive muscle grew like a weed without any direct work at all.

Arms in particular.

My arms stopped growing on curls and tri extensions. Years later weighted chins and heavy rowing added another inch with no direct arm work at all.

Even more important and less understood is the need for a big leg and hip exercise to build huge arms. I don't really understand it either, but you have to do it yourself before you believe it.
 

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Originally posted by Synthesize
If you're that sore, you're probably not eating enough.
Hmm I'll try that and continue with mass gain. I didn't know that soreness can be reduced by eating more.

Thx for other input. Alpine that's some nutty ****. I guess nature intended on people being proportional to an extent even if you do workout one muscle more than others.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whats wrong with a little Variety?
 

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I've just thought I should clarify what I'm saying.

When I say direct work I mean like 'isolation' exercises, although in reality there is no such thing anyway.

When you do overhead presses you work the triceps very hard, benches too. These combined with palm facing chins with a weight belt will pack the mass on the arms better than most direct work.

Most people only try this after they have made progress with curls etc and then stopped growing completely.

Some young guys can do huge amounts of sets/reps exercises and still gain. Most people however would gain a lot more mass if they just did a simple deadlift, OHP and bent over rows. Although I'd cycle the number of sets try low rep work 3-6 for a while and see the difference.

After a month or two swap to chins, squat and benches.

Another key element is to start a cycle light, build up to a max, then drop back the weight and build up again. If you think this is crazy then every powerlifter, Oly lifter and those who continue to grow year on year need telling, rather you than me.

My sources would be books like, keys to progression, beyond brawn, power to the people (pavel's ebook) and many non roid orientated bodybuilding forums.

Save yourself some sweat.
 
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