"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Basic Dynamics of a Healthy and Positive LTR

Wyldfire

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I'm not going to respond to off topic flame baiting garbage in the tips section.

By bringing that kind of behavior here the two of you are showing complete and total disrespect for this site. I have not been banned and won't be banned because I contribute useful, positive, practical and helpful content to this site. There aren't as many people who offer quality content to this site as there used to be. I have never seen any truly quality content out of either one of you. Do you realize what that means? It means that you are expendable. It would be a greater loss to this site to lose me than it would be to lose either of you or any of the other guys who have been banned for flamebaiting and trouble making. You're just going to have to accept the fact that I post here and know that no amount of your immature and juvenile flamebaiting is going to change that. I've been here a very long time and have consistently faced this same thing from anywhere from one or two to 20 or more of your types at any given time. I'm still here and am not going anywhere. If you don't like it...leave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MuayThai

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Wyldfire said:
I'm not going to respond to off topic flame baiting garbage in the tips section.

By bringing that kind of behavior here the two of you are showing complete and total disrespect for this site. I have not been banned and won't be banned because I contribute useful, positive, practical and helpful content to this site. There aren't as many people who offer quality content to this site as there used to be. I have never seen any truly quality content out of either one of you. Do you realize what that means? It means that you are expendable. It would be a greater loss to this site to lose me than it would be to lose either of you or any of the other guys who have been banned for flamebaiting and trouble making. You're just going to have to accept the fact that I post here and know that no amount of your immature and juvenile flamebaiting is going to change that. I've been here a very long time and have consistently faced this same thing from anywhere from one or two to 20 or more of your types at any given time. I'm still here and am not going anywhere. If you don't like it...leave.
lul wut?

You at your very best just regurgitate other peoples advice. But you usually just post some semi-feminist bull crap.

By bringing that kind of behavior here the two of you are showing complete and total disrespect for this site.
Your getting mixed up with "you" and "this site".


You're just going to have to accept the fact that I post here and know that no amount of your immature and juvenile flamebaiting is going to change that.
Your just going to have to accept the fact that I post here and know that know amount of your immature and juvenile "advice" :crackup: is going to change me commenting on your "useful, positive, practical and helpful content" :up: If you don't like it...leave.

:p :flowers:
 
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