"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BASHFUL,

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Yo Moderators:

I know NSS said something about this guy, but can all of ya'll PLEASE delete this guy. It's bad enough with his bytchin' and moaning once in a while, now every day. Fukk that!

I know this sounds fukked up, but damn "B," give us a break!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Neophyte

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Maybe Bashful is just turning to be in a better mood...

have you read his reply in the topic "The Donjuan Olympics" ?

There he started to say some positive things.

But, you are right, he's very desperate moaning sometimes...
 

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I tend to think he's slowly growing out of his "whining phase".

It should'nt be long before he enters his "bitter phase" so be prepared for that.

If he or anyone else for that matter starts whining just ignore him from now on.

But personally, I think bashful's gonna be just fine.
 

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Originally posted by ACTION:
Yo Moderators:

I know NSS said something about this guy, but can all of ya'll PLEASE delete this guy. It's bad enough with his bytchin' and moaning once in a while, now every day. Fukk that!

I know this sounds fukked up, but damn "B," give us a break!

How true!

How many times can we let this happen? The only thing Bashful, Wjboogy, Struggling have done was to disrupt the flow of the board. I know you closed many of his threads, when are you stop this crAp? What has changed since this was first posted????


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Actually, some of the best advice on this forum is posted in response to the whinings of bashful/wjboogy/struggling.

Of course, inevitably, he gets annoying and winds up getting himself banned.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Actually, some of the best advice on this forum is posted in response to the whinings of bashful/wjboogy/struggling.

Of course, inevitably, he gets annoying and winds up getting himself banned.

I am curious, Allen. What gets posted in response to him that hasn't been recycled, parotteded and paraphrased in previous posts a million times over already? I am not trying to taunt or impugn you, I just don't really think this holds water as an argument to keep him around, but that's obviously not my call.

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Actually, some of the best advice on this forum is posted in response to the whinings of bashful/wjboogy/struggling.

You're kidding, right?

Of course, inevitably, he gets annoying and winds up getting himself banned.
I'm sorry, but he just sucks all the fun out of this place. I think I'll just go do something else until he goes away.

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I take back all of the following words, written in bold:


Maybe Bashful is just turning to be in a better mood...
have you read his reply in the topic "The Donjuan Olympics" ?

There he started to say some positive things.



Struggling, Bashful or whatever is unbelievable.

1) He asks a desperate question or tells us he's desperate.
2) People try to help
3) He tells them it's not working and they're telling him crap.
4) People try to tell he's wrong and he must stop whining

RESULT:

He starts moaning some more, without giving us actual results!


I'm finished with this guy, he's just negative all the way and that's why his attitude will fail towards girls!

A guy that can upset most of the persons on this board for whatever reason it's obvious that girls will not like him, because he most probably acts the same way towards them.

Even the regular guys on this board sense him a mile away when he appears with a new nick name. That is no coincidence.

Struggling, in case you read this:
learn how to make friends instead of "friends" that gossip behind your back. Girls that say you're nice in your face, are thinking the opposite - that's why you can't get a girl.

Case solved and closed.

-Neo


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When did this get posted?

Oh well, so let me get this straight. Because I present a problem in here, its considered "whining"

If i joke one of you back, im considered the bad guy.

And p.s.
Do you think im dumb enough to act depressed around a girl? Yea.....your not the brightest lamp in the store.

Sosuave - chill out kid.
No ones whining, im just having difficulties. So stop judging people before you know them.


And im done with you.
 

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Originally posted by Struggling:
When did this get posted?
bashful!! its says the date on the post mate???!!
yanks!

:) j/k

if you try to work your way "out" you have my FUll SUPPORT.i think you know what you need to do(no no not have a whine then tossing off to bed)

*no! bashful your cousin does not like you!!

*bashful!! damn you the neighbour's dog is pregant again...how many times...

*no bashful.. you can not spent the night at billys

*bashful!! you leave your mother alone buoy!

still j/k :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree, get rid of this wimpy loser, he is more interested in talking to us guys than approaching women.

I think he is a closet fag

I HOPE HE GETS A BEAT DOWN

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