"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was hanging out with a friend, an acquaintance really, who has just gotten into the game. He's trying to game within his social circle. I thought it might be worth it to meet new people. Big mistake. Night of the living baseheads. Coke, meth, in addition to the stand bys pot, alchol and cigs. I couldn't believe the rate at which they were downing this stuff. I think they would have consumed 24 hours straight, or longer, if they had a chance.

I left as soon as possible. They were so doped up, they didn't care who came or left. Some of these women were either surprisingly intelligent or attractive. A couple of them gamed me, but I was completely disturbed and turned off by their chemical river.

Has anyone dated baseheads before? I have little experience in this area. Some of these girls are hot and have made overtures, but I don't know what kind of behavior to expect from such girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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damn what is this.. night of the drug infested posts? you guys are making me rehash memories I have tried to get away from.. run backbreaker Run!

I used to used to be fund of nose candy... I never smoked weed that much but I would have a blunt or to. I even used to hit the pipe..a ctually not that long ago.. it wuld be about 8 months in a week since i stopped.

Coke in itself.. you can't really judge someone off of coke. I could go back to using coke, straight coke, not freebasing it (and BTW, a basehead is actually a crackhead.. freebase/crack are the same thing... the people you are talking about are just stoned) but strait coke, and not feel bad about it. I mean it's not good for you long term, but smoking isn't either, nor is drinking. I mean the comedown on coke is actually easier than drinking: plenty of nights I could finish off an 8ball (with a lady friend of course), while watching a movie and then head right to sleep, sober as can be, unlike drinking where I'd be liable to be in the middle of the ocean by the time I got done drinking. however it's too much of a hassle.. getting it, re cutting it, hiding it, etc and I don't do any drugs anymore. Let me put it this way, I didn't stop using coke because I felt bad because i was using it or that I was damaging my soul or anything like that. again, I really just grew out of the w hole drug phase. I'm having too much fun as it is.

weed...blah.. again. To me coke and weed are about a toss up. I'm not going to not date anyone who does either from time to time. Anymore than truly occussionaly and in moderation is out the door however.

Hard, meth, H, X & anything else.. i'm out.
 

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God, speed and ice are the most dirty drugs you could ever do. The comedown is the worst I ever experienced. Stay away.
 

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get as far away from those losers as possible, i dont care if the chick is a 19 on a scale from 1 to 10 u dont need that sh!t
plus its jus a major turn-off for me
 

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[S]alvatore said:
God, speed and ice are the most dirty drugs you could ever do. The comedown is the worst I ever experienced. Stay away.
I think H is worse but these two are definalty in the contintion for wrose comedown drugs ever. espically speed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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total_afc said:
Some of these women were either surprisingly intelligent or attractive.

Some of these girls are hot
Surprisingly? How do you think a lot of loser guys "get" hot chicks? Why do you think a lot of guys get into the drug scene to begin with?

Honestly, I don't think there's too many fat or fugly chix into drugs. It's seen as a "high status" vice that hot party chix flock to.

Which is what sux. More than likely, most hot chix you meet are or were into dope.
 

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It does explain why you sometimes see hot girls with guys who look like insects from a sci fi film. I'm talking mangled teeth, malnourished, who dress like kriss kross. Freakin' sad. The smack must be really good in order for these girls to hook up with guys who are basically the roaches of human society.

Wayword: it was half and half. Some of these baseheads were really attractive. The other half were big girls who were not attractive.

edit: I recently met a (supposedly former) drug dealer who claims he's slept with over 100 women simply by providing them all with smack.
 

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total_afc said:
It does explain why you sometimes see hot girls with guys who look like insects from a sci fi film.

edit: I recently met a (supposedly former) drug dealer who claims he's slept with over 100 women simply by providing them all with smack.
Well think about it - dope is an automatic passive DHV - as it implies that you are a cool bad boy with money and social status. And you can give them a guaranteed high.

I personally don't mess with drugs due to all the downsides...but I can see why it can be great chickbait!
 
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