"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bartending school--worth it?

MooseGod

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So I'm needing a trade I can make decent money in part-time until I finish college--then I came across an ad for bartending school. AND they guarantee a job in the town of your choice...which is great, because drinking is the #1 activity where I'm going to school (drinking town with a football problem.)

So who here has done the bartender thing? Any tips/tricks/outrageous stories?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Save your money and don't go to bartending school. Just go barback to get experience and you get paid also. Even when you get out of bartending school they will stick you at barback for a bit.
 
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its where you like switch kegs and that sort of stuff, everything except serve drinks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The issue I see with bartending isn't getting a job, there are always lots of bartending gigs to be found. The issue is getting on at a hot club, which is where you want to be, not one filled with old alkys. I'm not sure if bartending school would help or if you just need to approach the clubs you want to work at and ask how to get started there. Maybe someone who actually works at one of these places can elaborate. Whatever you do remember that bartending is a *vocation*, it is what is, and you don't want to be a 50 year old bartender!!!! I'd keep my emphasis on my college degree and make sure the club knows bartending can't get in the way of studies.
 

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everywomanshero said:
TWhatever you do remember that bartending is a *vocation*, it is what is, and you don't want to be a 50 year old bartender!!!! I'd keep my emphasis on my college degree and make sure the club knows bartending can't get in the way of studies.
That's true, but having a trade to fall back on is never a bad idea...I'm wishing I would have gone to vo-tech in HS for free when I had the chance. I'm a college man all the way, but it'd be nice to have something that pays more than I'm making now working at a bowling alley while I'm still in school.

A person can never have enough skills...besides, girls only want guys with good skills! /napoleon dynamite voice
 
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