Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bartending Game Tips

jeff_reigert

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I'm a college senior and a bartender at a pub near our campus.

Does anyone have any tips or specific techniques found to be successful for people in positions like mine?

:rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vulpine

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I tend bar.

There is only one trick that helped me:

read the DJ Bible.
 

Vulpine

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fuzzx said:
What do you take home as the bartender? I'm curious.. I got my bartender's diploma several years ago (never used it) but my smart serve has since run out. What's a typical night gross?
It depends on the venue. "Local" joints don't see the same cash that "Party" destinations do; country clubs are different from restaurants...

It's SoooOOOoooo subjective: depending on the shift (day/night), night of the week, crowd, current events, jackasses that you have to work with/split with... around here, you can make $20-$200 a night, and there is really little you can do to influence it. Myself, I usually average $80 a night, but I don't exactly work at a high profile place.

Location is huge! Game days at a place across from a stadium? And your team won? Psshhhfff...
Vegas?

:rolleyes:

It's a decent part-time job if you want to dabble. But, in order to make the fat bank, you're are going to have to put in serious work and time before you'll land any six-figure gig.
 

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ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY ITS ABOUT THE HONEY.

BARTENDERS are chic magnets if you know how to work the crowd
 
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