Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bartender Girl

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Last saturday.

My buddy and I went to a bar. My goal: to have fun.

I enter the bar like a rock star. Walking tall. I stand in the middle of the lobby checking the environment and making eye-contact. I take off my jacket. I notice the bartender girl looking at me. I notice her panties getting wet.

My buddy and I sit at the bar/counter. I get a little nervous with so much attention going on me and decide to relax. Deep breathing. Surrender. Let go. Nice. Normal again.

Lots of ***** around. Every one of them looking at us. My buddy has great looks but is shy as hell. We drink and talk and have fun. Eye-contact with bartender girl goes at crusing speed. She is an 8, so I step back a little.

After some time I call her and ask: "hey girl, how do you react to compliments?"

She says "bla bla bla bla", she was a little nervous. I was smiling.

I say "nice". That's it.

She was expecting me to give her a compliment after that, but I didn't. That's the whole point. Haha.

Girl gets intrigued with the mysterious guy.

My buddy and I keep talking and having fun. After a while we decide to leave.

Some slow sexy music was playing.

I call the girl and say "hey I want do dance with you".

The girl blushes, get nervous again and starts "bla bla bla".

I interrupt her and say "hey, I expressed myself wrong, sorry. Check please". Smile on my face.

(it sounds much more congruent the way I said it in German)

At this point the girl doesn't understand a **** anymore. I love that.

We pay and leave.

This is my favourite bar, that's the reason why I haven't shown all my cards. I want to get back there and tease this girl a little more until she begs me to **** her. And believe me, she will.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charmeur said:
Last saturday.

My buddy and I went to a bar. My goal: to have fun.

I enter the bar like a rock star. Walking tall. I stand in the middle of the lobby checking the environment and making eye-contact. I take off my jacket. I notice the bartender girl looking at me. I notice her panties getting wet.

My buddy and I sit at the bar/counter. I get a little nervous with so much attention going on me and decide to relax. Deep breathing. Surrender. Let go. Nice. Normal again.

Lots of ***** around. Every one of them looking at us. My buddy has great looks but is shy as hell. We drink and talk and have fun. Eye-contact with bartender girl goes at crusing speed. She is an 8, so I step back a little.

After some time I call her and ask: "hey girl, how do you react to compliments?"

She says "bla bla bla bla", she was a little nervous. I was smiling.

I say "nice". That's it.

She was expecting me to give her a compliment after that, but I didn't. That's the whole point. Haha.

Girl gets intrigued with the mysterious guy.

My buddy and I keep talking and having fun. After a while we decide to leave.

Some slow sexy music was playing.

I call the girl and say "hey I want do dance with you".

The girl blushes, get nervous again and starts "bla bla bla".

I interrupt her and say "hey, I expressed myself wrong, sorry. Check please". Smile on my face.

(it sounds much more congruent the way I said it in German)

At this point the girl doesn't understand a **** anymore. I love that.

We pay and leave.

This is my favourite bar, that's the reason why I haven't shown all my cards. I want to get back there and tease this girl a little more until she begs me to **** her. And believe me, she will.
Hahahahaha
 

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My girlfriend is a bartender at one of the strip clubs here in fine las vegas. We've been dating for the last 2+ years or so.

I gotta say she's hands down the best girlfriend I've ever had, but she's also the biggest headache. Sometimes I'll come back to my house (we don't live together but she has a key) and there's a party going on. Mind you I work nightlife industry as well but still...we're talking 4, 5 in the morning. I find people f*cking in my bed from time, my pool and hot tub are being violated in ways that I cannot describe on this website.

Anyway usually I'm fuming mad when this happens and I go around the house looking for her. 9 times out of 10 she's in the sub level of my split and, ofcourse, she's behind the bar. Sometimes I'll come up to her pissed and she'll look at me and smile that f*cking Devil smile that melts me like i hot iron would do your run of the mill ice cube. Othertimes, she smiles and shows me a tips jar filled with large bills that she hustled all of these guys she brought back from the strip club....then it's me who's smiling.

Anyway the point of the story, is having a smart bartender for a girlfriend is AWESOME. If you have to play games to get her like the OP, then do it. If you snag one and they rule, your life gets bonus points.
 
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