"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bars/sausagefests/ men vs women etc

Borknagar

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Ok I'll try to recreate points during a conversation with a friend of mine I had last weekend, we were discussing ratio of men and women in bars.

I've been going out to various bars and clubs for the last year every single weekend. And heres some things I've noticed, being a guy who's going to obviously know how guys think and do things, and also going up and talking to a **** ton of women.

There was a recent threat on here about sausagefests and that was kinda the topic of discussion, and being a guy who used to be a total "metalhead" and go to those shows I'm probably the last one here to call a club/bar a sausagefest(when a metal show is 99% male) so here's some things you need to ask yourself before you deem a place a sausage fest. Feel free to disagree.

First off, lets take into account most men we see out. many men are too scared to approach women, many men also look too average, and don't dress up when they go out as much as women do, so they don't get noticed, are shy, and seriously did go out to just "drink" also like a few other people I've met who became wings, complain most of their friends they go out with are married, taken, etc and aren't looking to talk to women. So with that being said, we can take a good sum of guys out of the equation.

Women, on the other hand, I find married women, taken women, etc are less likely to go out to bars/clubs. In the last year, and doing tons of approaches, being approached, I can only say about 1/50 women have ever mentioned having a bf, not to say a few might not be bringin it up, or might be lying who knows. But still 1/50 is a very small amount to be possibly taken. This evens up the odds more.

I had a few more points about it, I just can't seem to remember, lol but what's all your opinions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Strelok

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What you forgot to add to the equation is that women are not forced to get a man when they live the place just like most of the times they go to a place seeking attention rather than companionships so its not something we can solve logically with maths.

10 men looking at them give them more pleasure than ten women sucking your c0ck to you.
Therefore it doesnt matter if those men are average or afraid to approach, they are good enough to give her what she wants.
And most of all they are good enough to c0ckblock just like the fat friend of her.

Big clubs are not a safe bet with any ratio that is not really favourable to men.
Example a club I saw in Riga on a cold night of winter where the ratio was 3 girls to any man; in that case they have to give something in return even to get an eye contact.
 

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Borknagar said:
First off, lets take into account most men we see out. many men are too scared to approach women, many men also look too average, and don't dress up when they go out as much as women do, so they don't get noticed, are shy, and seriously did go out to just "drink" also like a few other people I've met who became wings, complain most of their friends they go out with are married, taken, etc and aren't looking to talk to women. So with that being said, we can take a good sum of guys out of the equation.
I also noticed this. I noticed that my "competition" SUCKED, and I would honestly only have a handful of guys that stood out as any kind of competition.

Going out with female friends is also always interesting. And educational.
 
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