"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bars,drinks,trying scoring-good strategy?

PapiChulo

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Bars, drinks, getting horny, getting laid comprise a good strategy to hit it off with a chick you are already acquainted with.

No cute boyfriend/girlfriend stuff like doing fun things together? (Save it for later, right?)


The casual stuff like coffee etc. seems to be "beta", eh? The b!tch just wants a safe date where you can make her feel all fuzzy without escalating the game, whereas a bit tipsy is where you want her to be (while putting the move on).
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Going out for drinks loosens people up, I say go for it.
Thats always the best choice, but there are better places if you actually like this girl and want a relationship.
 

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DJ SO STEVE said:
Going out for drinks loosens people up, I say go for it.
Thats always the best choice, but there are better places if you actually like this girl and want a relationship.
Which places would you suggest?
 

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PapiChulo said:
Which places would you suggest?
I think the most important criteria is to go somewhere within walking distance of your place or her place.

Try to go some place where you can talk to her without yelling into her ear. Of course these types of places can range anywhere from a classy lounge with a cover or a shitty dive with super cheap drinks. Really depends on the girl. I tend to take girls to bars by their places that are definitely blue collar types (bordering on dive) but not trashy. Sometimes sports bars like Old Chicago's.

Places with some fun stuff like darts, pool, hoops, etc can break up just sitting there talking with some girl. I know a couple places that have Rock Band nights (or karaoke) and they can be fun with the right girl.

I know summer is over but if you're in a warm climate maybe a place with a patio or rooftop where you can get away from the band/dj/crowd.
 
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