"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bariatric Surgery

zekko

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Where I come from, many of the women come with hooves, lol. I've known quite a few females who have had bariatric surgery and lost a lot of weight. Here's what I've noticed:

Some of them lose a lot of weight and actually start to look hot. I imagine these women were hot before they got fat. But other women lose a lot of weight and they're still not attractive really. Some of them just look freakish, for whatever reason. Some women are just not that attractive, whether they are slim or not.

I kind of see some parallels between this and men who lose weight or build their bodies up. Some of them will become hot, and some of them just won't be that attractive. It's just the nature of things and the way of the world.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ArcBound

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As a guy with an averageish face I still work out.

I have no delusions that working out makes me face look any better, but it is a form of compensation.

You can have ugly women that are obese, or ugly women that are skinny. Obviously non are preferable but I can't think of a point where the latter isn't better.

I think skinniness is a big factor of attractiveness in women but not the only one.
 

mrRuckus

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A woman is lost once she becomes fat. There is no going back. The stretch marks have taken hold and they never go away. She may look good with the pretty wrapping paper but I assure you all is lost when you open that "present." Oh good, more socks.
 
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