bar hoes...you pick them up or meet up w/them?

[samueladams]

You guys pick up the HB's you # close on with at bars for a 1st date or you just tell them to meet you somewhere for this first encounter?

Basically normal 1st date where you actually spent some time talking to the girl/have known her for a little while, a pickup is appropriate...but if you talked to some broad for 2-5 min. while you were drunk and you kinda remember her being hot what do you do?

I see this first meetup as a very informal date and more of a get to know you and see if she's actually interesting. Seeing as they're essentially strangers I could see the house pickup as weird for both sides. What do you guys out there usually do?

 

[djSlvt]

I have a different perspective on this subject. In it, it don't matter whether the girl is a hoe, or your perfect 10.


Picking up her from her place or some where and driving her to a bar has a hidden meaning in it. It says that you what a particular outcome, as she is obligated to spend this entire date with you, since you brought her there, and will be the one to bring her home. It is controlling.

It is best if she picks you up, such as for a coffee date, then amplify attraction right there with 2 steps forward 1 step back. It is ok if she picks you up. It is also ok to meet at some place. It says a lot about your confidence.

While picking her up says you have low confidence and want to control her, letting her pick you up or meet you at some place says the opposite.



But hey, don't put too much thought into this. Sometimes the girl needs a ride. Jailbaits, college chicks, her car is broke, you name it. If she can't get to your place or to a neutral place, then it is ok to pick her up.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Wasn't sure what your question is, but a 'date' for me is usually inviting a girl to something that I would have done anyway, with or without her. If I know that I'll be with some friends I'll tell her to bring a friend or two along.

I mean, this way I'm not stuck waiting around hoping that she'll show up...

 

[violator]

Bar hoes don't deserve dates. Those are best left for girls you take seriously and are more ltr material. When I go to a bar/club my goal is to close the deal that same night or morning. Taking them out to a different venue for some drinks, a little action, like a game of pool at some seedy joint and then suggesting my place for some more drinks usually works for me. Read about the GUNWITCH method. He has some material about picking up women at clubs and fycking them the same night.

 

[samueladams]

Indeed I understand and for this frame of reference I was referring to all females at bars as bar hoes not just the one dressed like slvts. Chick is a senior at a local college which is a damn good school so she's not stupid. That is a critical factor for me...

was planning a basic lunch date so I can see if I should pursue this further and if she is indeed worth my time.

So I like this concept of having her pick me up on the way to lunch. I'm on the way to the spot anyways... What you guys think of this? She'll probably assumed I have a piece of sh*t car which is nice seeing as I have a nice car that's fully paid for. Probalby gives me bonus points for downplaying it if she's worthy of a 2nd date where I'd actually pick her up.

Anyways thoughts on having the girl pick you up for casual lunch?

 

[lookyoung]

If I were you pick her up, and go out for some drinks. Coffee dates and lunch dates will not get you laid period. Skip the coffee and the lunch and go out for some drinks.

I mean if she was totally ugly you wound not have asked for her number anyway. Go out have a few drinks and than go for a kiss close-isolation-fvck close.

 

[samueladams]

If I were you pick her up, and go out for some drinks. Coffee dates and lunch dates will not get you laid period. Skip the coffee and the lunch and go out for some drinks.

I mean if she was totally ugly you wound not have asked for her number anyway. Go out have a few drinks and than go for a kiss close-isolation-fvck close.

Yeah I mean finding a girl to fvck is one thing. I was more interested in the fact that this chick actually is graduating from this respectable college. Finding the bar trash that work as hair dressers, waitresses etc...isn't so hard to do...

I am indeed in trigued by the concept of having her pick you up though. I'll try it and report back unless anyone thinks is the dumbest of dumb ideas. She's already learned too much about me since she knows I go to the same school as her and am in Med school here. I wanna hide my ride, as its nice, so the gold digger syndrome doesn't blow up.