"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Banging mid 20's as a 35+ male?

mrgoodstuff

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What guidelines?

I noticed for fashion the mid 20's do it their way with ripped jeans, Chuck Taylor gym shoes, the patterned shirts, tats all over. You know the dressed down but coordinated look.

Do you adjust your fashion and vibe for them?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What guidelines?

I noticed for fashion the mid 20's do it their way with ripped jeans, Chuck Taylor gym shoes, the patterned shirts, tats all over. You know the dressed down but coordinated look.

Do you adjust your fashion and vibe for them?
If you dress and act like them, they will think you're immature. Mid 30's are supposed to be stable and secure. You can have similar interests, but do not emulate that type of style. If they are looking to date older, you should portray said traits. Unless, you're a celeb or something. Then you can get away with it.
 

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I do what I want. Thats the reason they are attracted to me in the first place. That's why I'm 41 and have zero problems putting mid-late 20 year olds.
 
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