"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chosen1

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Yo, everybody I have a story to tell. I was walking one of my brothers friends home one day when his mom greeted me at the door. She was not a bad looking women, and I could tell she liked me. How you ask? she asked my age and then compared my age to hers. Well anyways I was wondering when you knew that a girl liked you how to transaction to sex. It seems I'm not a very affectionate person and the guys good at banging women are. My 20 year old brother was having sex since he was like 10. He's a very affectitionate person. My question is. I know this was asked before. But it seems I just can't care about anybody. I don't find most people interesting and some of you guys on here are very good at asking question and EV, and all that crap. How can I become better, at caring.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't understand the connection between some hot mom wanting sex from you and your general interest in becoming better at asking questions and more caring?
 

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skinnydart said:
I don't understand the connection between some hot mom wanting sex from you and your general interest in becoming better at asking questions and more caring?
Valley dj it's true my brother is however diagnosed with bipolar so the restrictions on what he does is limited. Skinnydart the thing is I don't really care if I get sex or not I don't ask questions I'm like I told my mom blahsay. I just want to be able to give a crap about what people say more often. I'm generally not seeking sex or to connect with anyone. I just try to live. But I want to know more about people but I don't care. It's a paradox if you ask me.
 
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