"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On the kevin & bean show kroq they had a former ny police guy on the show.
He claims to have been practically a virgin at 22. Then he became a cop and banged between 500-800 women in about 10 years time before he got married.
The funny part was his advice was to be: honest, protecting and nice
he made a special point about being funny too

anybody else in socal hear this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What he SAYS and what he actually DID might be different. He might have though he was only being honest and nice, but for all we know, the guy could be 6'4", buff and look like Brad Pitt. He might have been smooth and used a lot of c+f too. I'd like to have seen the dude in action.
 

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He might be a liar or he might be banging 40 year old fat women. C'mon, cop is just above convict to most females.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Did these women fvck him to get out of a ticket?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There are women that have a thing for cops. There are women that have a thing for firemen. These guys are in dangerous professions, they're usually built, and they have a power attitude.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Mr. Me said:
There are women that have a thing for cops. There are women that have a thing for firemen. These guys are in dangerous professions, they're usually built, and they have a power attitude.
Women do like a man in uniform... :rolleyes:
 

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He banged women who fantasize about being cuffed and banged in the back of a cop car, ticketed for bad behavior, sprayed on the ass with mace and spanked with the baton, with the German Shepard watching. :crackup:
 

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although he admitted to fvcking women of all types he claims that a lot of them were when he was on duty. Even though he was poor he says that he was just such a friendly guy that he would befriend club owners and then date showgirls...he also said his biggest rival for women was a good friend joe namath

this guy is pretty old but during the interview a girl emailed the radio station saying she met him on the train the other day and wanted to get in touch...lol
 

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Perhaps he read The Book Of Pook once. (just so some of you geeks start pre-cvmin').
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It might be because that while turning into a cop, he also gained confidence and turned into Alpha. Most cops I know have to behave like alphas. It's a part of the job. Nobody will listen to a geek with a badge.
 

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SAKongen said:
It might be because that while turning into a cop, he also gained confidence and turned into Alpha. Most cops I know have to behave like alphas. It's a part of the job. Nobody will listen to a geek with a badge.
Fair, and I'm sure most cops do well for themselves... but none of them are getting laid like this guy.

I'd like to see what he looks like, and see how he approaches women.
 

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saber said:
On the kevin & bean show kroq they had a former ny police guy on the show.
He claims to have been practically a virgin at 22. Then he became a cop and banged between 500-800 women in about 10 years time before he got married.
The funny part was his advice was to be: honest, protecting and nice
he made a special point about being funny too

anybody else in socal hear this?
800 women in 10 years.
80 women / year
6.66 women / month
1.66 women / week

Guess its possible. Pretty bad if you don't know if you've slept 500-800 women though. That's 300 women you are not keeping track of.
 

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500-800 women? So he is giving himself a cushion of three hundred? Whatever.

I will go out on a limb and say that almost any of you could get 500 females in the next 10 years. They might be old, hairy, and really fat but you could get a high number count.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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