You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Except fvcking a fat girl is not like being on a moped. It's more like being on a donkey....that is suffering from a shortness of breath and explosive diarrhoea. Never had sex with a fat girl. I find the whole concept disgusting. How can all that loose flesh and cellulite be "fun to ride"?Espi said:
You find it disgusting. Another dude may find it bearable or even enjoyable. It has been said a billion times but I'm going to say it again, the boner test trumps all. Let dudes have their fat chicks. The more fat chicks out there getting fvcked the less fat chick c0ckblocks you'll have to deal with when you're trying to game her thin friend.Bokanovsky said:
Well, I'm certainly not trying to tell anyone who they should or should not fvck. I'm just expressing my personal views on the subject. It's true enough that for some guys, fat chicks pass the boner test. Heck, there are guys for whom other guys pass the boner test. Then there are guys for whom goats pass the boner test. To each his own I suppose.JoeMarron said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Good point. If you are going to take risks (and all sexual encounters involve a degree of risk), at least do it in a way that provides more than just marginal enjoyment. Would you go skydiving if it was as exciting as riding a bicycle?Robyn923b said:
