"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bane was a total alpha badass, yet he was friendzoned...

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I don't get it, he was a total badass, totally alpha in every way and the ultimate bad boy (was gona nuke Gotham) and yet...he was friendzoned.....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well he was friendzoned by a woman who wasnt exactly a typical female.
 

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well he was friendzoned by a woman who wasnt exactly a typical female.

....what?

She kept hounding Bruce for money the first half of the movie
She then slept with Bruce the MOMENT she saw he had a picture of another woman in his house
She had serious Daddy issues
She stabbed Bruce from behind when he LEAST expected it
She brought up an incident that happened 8 YEARS AGO
She TOTALLY overreacted to that old incident by manipulating, lying and dragging LITERALLY EVERYBODY ELSE in the city into the drama
She friendzoned the guy that saved her life and literally did everything for her
She constantly shouted and criticized the guy driving the nuke truck
She then crashed the nuke truck the MOMENT she got took over the wheel
And most importantly we don't find out who she REALLY is until it's too late.

Talia was pretty damn close to "typical" as a woman can get.
 

spang

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Toast123 said:
well he was friendzoned by a woman who wasnt exactly a typical female.

....what?

She kept hounding Bruce for money the first half of the movie
She then slept with Bruce the MOMENT she saw he had a picture of another woman in his house
She had serious Daddy issues
She stabbed Bruce from behind when he LEAST expected it
She brought up an incident that happened 8 YEARS AGO
She TOTALLY overreacted to that old incident by manipulating, lying and dragging LITERALLY EVERYBODY ELSE in the city into the drama
She friendzoned the guy that saved her life and literally did everything for her
She constantly shouted and criticized the guy driving the nuke truck
She then crashed the nuke truck the MOMENT she got took over the wheel
And most importantly we don't find out who she REALLY is until it's too late.

Talia was pretty damn close to "typical" as a woman can get.
she also climbed out of huge hole of a prison without a safety rope. and concocted a nearly flawless plan to destroy an entire city with a nuclear bomb...then did whatever it took to make sure said plan was executed. what average female could have done that? how many of these spoiled pricesses you see everywhere could have the balls to do that? not a single one. talia is playing a role that is more like that of a man with huge balls. although she is evil, slutty, deceitful, and manipulative like an average woman. its just feminists unrealistic portrayal of women in movies.
for what its worth, the best message in that movie is "you must climb without the rope."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you guys are starting to talk about comic book characters as if they were real people, something tells me your friday night is going to be just as exciting as mine
 

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This entire topic makes me embarrassed to be apart of these forums.
 

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This entire topic makes me embarrassed to be apart of these forums.

Insecure much?
 

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Toast123 said:
This entire topic makes me embarrassed to be apart of these forums.

Insecure much?
...How old are you, seriously?

You're trying to make sense of these tropes and apply them to characters who are created by a team of writers who's purpose is to fit into and act appropriately in a specific narrative. Bane wasn't "friendzoned" by Talia because he forgot to neg and didnt kino enough, he was "friendzoned" because the writers wanted it that way. And he wasn't even "friendzoned" - not every platonic relationship between a man and a woman is always because the woman "friendzoned" the man - it looked to me as though they both cared for each other like family.


He's the ultimate badboy because he decided to nuke a city and kill millions of people? That's not "alpha", that's being a sociopath.
 
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He was both friendzoned and an alpha because it's a fiction story.

Fiction.

Does that answer your question?

Good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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