"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ban Me!!!

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by undesputable
ive tried to get them to ban me....it wont work....if you really really want to get banned start insulting everyone kinda like PRL did.
PRL was insulting people? When?

I've never seen that.:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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quest

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crap post.
let it die.

we don't need whinging *****es getting mothered.

this site is for men.

spider, stop asking to be banned, go to www.barbie.com and post on the ken forum. you'll find someother cry baby homos there i'm sure.
 

LIME!

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Look, I'm 30, $300,000 in debt from medical bills, I have no job, and my body has been weakened from a critical illness. Oh, and I live at home at the moment.

I'm not giving up and neither should you.
 

Casino

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man thats why i stopped coming to this site..it's full of AFC's like this guy. wallowing in his own self pity and living in the past.

create your own reality and stop living under the pre-conceived notions that the best years are behind you. the best day of your life could happen tomorrow.

you make me sick.
 

LIME!

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Ah, this is place is mostly for AFCs. It's an AFC hospital! Some, like this guy, are having a relapse. In a year he'll dominate and joke about how he was before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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quest

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he has more posts then me, and i've been here for more then a year longer then him..

and i consider myself a very active member of this community..

maybe if he wasn't a KBJ he wouldn't have these issues?

he won't dominate in a year, because he still makes excuses for himself. and he'll dominate once he stops doing that.
 

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Spider... :p

Join various clubs. I joined the rock climbing club here in my small town. And as it turned out one of the people I met there was a really cool guy. We're great friends now. Going to the mountains to rock climb in November. I met all of his friends, and some of 'em are cool people too. Even more friends.

Then I got close to his friends, who inroduced me to their friends.


From this ONE guy, I made about 10 new awesome friends, who I see quite often, in about 5 months. :) In fact, the more I see these people, the better friends we become.

So as the saying goes: "Join a club..." ;)

luck!
 

spider_007

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WHO THE HELL BROUGHT THIS THREAD UP AGAIN :D :p

This was 2-3 months ago, and i felt like **** that day. some stuff has changed since then; I'M A LOT MORE HAPPY, and i am making friends.


i still wouldn't mind getting band tho. i've been troling this forum little too much
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
i still wouldn't mind getting band tho. i've been troling this forum little too much
Do what I do. Post for a couple of weeks and then vanish for a few months. Show some self-control for the love of god! There is more to life than SoSuave!
 

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Originally posted by tactic
we're a bunch of sad DJs
:crackup: ^

anyways
your best years might have not come yet. at 37 my neighbour is the best dj iv ever come across, he claimed he was a slacker in high skool but redeemed himself at 27
its not too late man.
**** happens we all got ups and downs attimes when nothing seems to go our way but they dont last.
why cry over past,when you still got a future.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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S-lemond

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persistence is the key...and your given up...
 

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Originally posted by spider_007


And 15-20 ARE the prime years. In those years couples don't expect notting more form each other then; GOOD TIME.
Those girls also have no idea how to have good sex.

i don't like having to train them. i had to fix my current gf cause she was so used to kissing her exbf she went out with for like 6 years off and on she wasn't kissing the way i want (would barely open her mouth) because apparently he couldn't kiss for crap and got her into the habit. That was easily fixable and she's a great kisser now but i sure as hell wouldn't want to have to pass on an awesome girl like her because i had to train her to do sex well. I was lucky enough she knew how to do that and willing to learn to do things the way i like em.

No way i wanna train some dumb 15 year old how to touch a d1ck. Or to keep her damn teeth off me. Had enough crap like that in college. Very disappointing to get a hot girl all naked and find out she has no clue what she's doing and no other guys she's been with ever corrected her.
 
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