"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lost

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Just look at the posts he makes

He doesnt even read what people say when he responds, he just talks nonsense. And he does it with horrible grammar.

Not to mention his mindset is messed up

here is a quote from his latest post:

"im into murder and death and gore and pimping women and enslaving women mentally but this song is in very bad taste in my humble opinion." - and murder and death and enslaving women is not bad taste? Please. Sounds like a good way to become a rapist. Or some other type of freak.

Not a very good influence on the teenagers on this site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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InsidiousNstinct

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I've learned from experience.....things like these opens up can of worms...

If you have a public problem with someone go to the source or to the mods directly...no reason to tell everyone. :)
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
If you have a public problem with someone go to the source or to the mods directly...no reason to tell everyone. :)
 
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