"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ban, Ban Ban!!!!

B9

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Ok, there seems to be a right number of muppets flooding the boards at the moments, many of who fully deserve to be banned.

I would however suggest that the proccess of banning happens a bit more openly, so we can see what is going on. Not suggesting that the considerations for who be banned take place publically, merely that maybe an announcement is made whenever someone is banned, citing the grounds for it. I am quite frankly a bit surpised that echo1212 and Ded_Skin_Mask13 have been banned. Don't you issue warnings to posters to change their behaviour before banning them? makes me wonder who else has been banned in this recent flurry of bans.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with the above. Echo1212 has been around for a long time and gave me some really good advice when I was broken hearted and floundering around in my own urine and feces for a couple months

Its one thing to ban people for obstructing the smooth flow of the boards daily operation, but it seems like Hitler has taken over this board and banning the free exchange of information (Im quite shore Im on the "ban" list too) but thats a different story.

additionally, by banning members for speaking their minds..you are just opening up a portal of fakers and imposters, who are pissed off and posting garbage..thus cluttering the board even more

Echo really likes this forum and has been an outstanding member for a while. Right now he is in shock therapy and drugged up on thorazine because you folks banned him..not only that he has been posting way too much on girlproblems.com

Please unban him and take me instead. Im a good samaratin like that (plus samaritan is a word jumble for Starman..kinda)

So I beg for you moderators to take off your gestapo helmets and have mercy, you maybe traumatizing a good kid for a very long time.

peace
 
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Saine

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Sigh. I was very surprised when they banned ded_s and echo, they both were cool.

It's the people from EF who took advantage of us.
 
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