"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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B9

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Ok, there seems to be a right number of muppets flooding the boards at the moments, many of who fully deserve to be banned.

I would however suggest that the proccess of banning happens a bit more openly, so we can see what is going on. Not suggesting that the considerations for who be banned take place publically, merely that maybe an announcement is made whenever someone is banned, citing the grounds for it. I am quite frankly a bit surpised that echo1212 and Ded_Skin_Mask13 have been banned. Don't you issue warnings to posters to change their behaviour before banning them? makes me wonder who else has been banned in this recent flurry of bans.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree with the above. Echo1212 has been around for a long time and gave me some really good advice when I was broken hearted and floundering around in my own urine and feces for a couple months

Its one thing to ban people for obstructing the smooth flow of the boards daily operation, but it seems like Hitler has taken over this board and banning the free exchange of information (Im quite shore Im on the "ban" list too) but thats a different story.

additionally, by banning members for speaking their minds..you are just opening up a portal of fakers and imposters, who are pissed off and posting garbage..thus cluttering the board even more

Echo really likes this forum and has been an outstanding member for a while. Right now he is in shock therapy and drugged up on thorazine because you folks banned him..not only that he has been posting way too much on girlproblems.com

Please unban him and take me instead. Im a good samaratin like that (plus samaritan is a word jumble for Starman..kinda)

So I beg for you moderators to take off your gestapo helmets and have mercy, you maybe traumatizing a good kid for a very long time.

peace
 
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Sigh. I was very surprised when they banned ded_s and echo, they both were cool.

It's the people from EF who took advantage of us.
 
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