OK, heres the deal. Last night when I was hammered I decided that I was sick of going to bars with my friends and not talking to any girls except for the ones that are in our group. So, I started approaching girls I didn't know by myself...Yes I know its lame, Ive never done this before in a bar though so it was kind of a big deal to me. Gave me a lot of confidence.
First Girl HB8 With her friend HB8:
Talked for like 15 minutes she told me what she did, she was a trader on the mercantile exchange, and I picked on her about having such a prestigious job, she seemed to think it was funny though. Conversation was winding down, so retardedly I asked her for her business card. She dug for one in her purse for like a minute and couldn't find one, so she just gave me her number.
Second Girl HB9 with friend HB6:
Talked for like 10 minutes about her job and stuff, she was a teacher. I would of classified her as a 10 if she had been taller (she was like barely 5ft tall). Had a decent conversation and I asked for her number, and she said "well im kind of seeing someone." So I think I was an AFC and said something like "well hey we could still hang out sometime, theres nothing wrong with that" and she ended up giving me her number.
I was kind of surprised that I didn't get shot down or blown off right away. I say this because although Ive been told the opposite I don't really consider myself an attractive person. I am tall and in shape so that helps, but I am fair skinned and have red hair that is receding a bit (although I keep it short so that people don't really notice).
My roommate says not to bother calling either of them because it wont lead to anything. I think I should at least call the first one. Hopefully they gave me real numbers. So please give me feedback and maybe advice on what to say if I call them? Thanks!
First Girl HB8 With her friend HB8:
Talked for like 15 minutes she told me what she did, she was a trader on the mercantile exchange, and I picked on her about having such a prestigious job, she seemed to think it was funny though. Conversation was winding down, so retardedly I asked her for her business card. She dug for one in her purse for like a minute and couldn't find one, so she just gave me her number.
Second Girl HB9 with friend HB6:
Talked for like 10 minutes about her job and stuff, she was a teacher. I would of classified her as a 10 if she had been taller (she was like barely 5ft tall). Had a decent conversation and I asked for her number, and she said "well im kind of seeing someone." So I think I was an AFC and said something like "well hey we could still hang out sometime, theres nothing wrong with that" and she ended up giving me her number.
I was kind of surprised that I didn't get shot down or blown off right away. I say this because although Ive been told the opposite I don't really consider myself an attractive person. I am tall and in shape so that helps, but I am fair skinned and have red hair that is receding a bit (although I keep it short so that people don't really notice).
My roommate says not to bother calling either of them because it wont lead to anything. I think I should at least call the first one. Hopefully they gave me real numbers. So please give me feedback and maybe advice on what to say if I call them? Thanks!