BALLS, do you have them?

[sexy_kuta]

alright, im going to try my best to put this into words, in a relationship between a woman and a man. the man got the balls, understood? it doesnt matter how hot your girl is, looks can mean whole different thing, ur girl can a hot as fuk but be a real b1tch, cold hearted one. so never ever put her on a pedstal why? because you'll give her the power, when you give her the power she can make u do ANYTHING, give up sunday night football, give up ur friends, fuking give up ur ride! the first moment ur girl steps out of line, u push her back 10 feet before the line so she doesnt cross it again, so let me explain that figure of speech, u make dont sure ur girl doesnt do it again. could be anything, stepping out of line could be any lines of disrespect. the level of disrespect determines on how bad u put it. to me, any form of disrespect is bad enough. and be straight up. dont beat around the bush, quit tryin to get ur girl jelous or give her ****ing hints. if u got a problem with her u phone her up or get her ot ur face and tell her, why would u be afraid of a 5'4 120 pound girl? NO u dont need to be a jerk or an ******* what you need to do is fuking grab ur balls and DONT TAKE ****, i hate guys who put the ***** on the pedstal, "how do i get her back" it should be more on "how can i improve myself so i can attract BETTER"
i was in a **** hole 3 weeks ago, now im fuking better than ever, how? i grabbed my balls!

i give you an example.

ex: (phoing at 3am) hey baby can u pick me and my friends up?"
me:no im sleeping
ex: ok bye.
Menext day) listen girl, i aint someone who u can call at 3am to get picked up, you mistaken me for some other guy

THATS all., i didnt need to yell at her, didnt need to give her a hint. i just told her straight up..

ALWAYS think with ur head, not your heart. yeh its hard to controll those feelings, i'll admit but yo will fuk up, this aint hollywood, u cant write a poem to a girl without her making fun of u with 3 of her friends while theres a black dildo up her ass. no its not that simple. u gotta say on ur TOES and manipulative these girls.

quit lettin ur girl walk all over you. Danny, aka DOAN DAN whaever ur fking name is along with ur other SN names wheyprotien, dasniwater, fuk, u have NO balls. you will NEVEr have them nor will you ever find new ones. ur girl took them, she has them and she will keep em' simple is that.

cheating.. if ur girl cheats shes DONE, simple is that.

GIRLS only add or enhance your happiness NOT TAKE IT AWAY!
if your girl leaves 2morrow, you will still do the same sh1t! work, work out, chill with the boys, eat sleep sh1t. nothing will change. and No girls dont make ur life complete. only you doo, you have the power to get up and do something, she doesnt tell u. she doesnt tell u to go to skool and get an edcuation. U DO. so dont listen to that bullsh1t"you make my life complete" yeh my ASS u do.

another thing, girls are incesure. no matter waht some are inscure by a lil and some by FAR you can easily tell them.. personally i fuking run from these b1tches fast as i can.
girls love putting make up. love spending hours doing it. while guys. take 30 min max to get ready. 10 min to shave. 10 min to shower. 10 min to dress.
girls LOVE going to socials only because they can show off their 200 dollar dress which they will forget after that one night.

so my conclsion is, in rough times, grab ur fuking balls. or better yET.

fuking ACKRITE

 

[Sexorcist]

AMEN, i'm scratching the hell out of my balls right now, AND sniffing my fingers. Listen to this guy he's too right...

this aint hollywood, u cant write a poem to a girl without her making fun of u with 3 of her friends while theres a black dildo up her ass.

LOL word to that **** right there......

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

This may be excellent advice for you two dudes and me, but not so great for those types of dudes who don't attract very many hot babes, I know that at least 10% of the hottest babes are attracted to me so I can take the control, because I can quickly replace that girl, you two dudes may be in my situation, but many are not, so if they lose the hot babe they have they could be by themselves for a very long time. :nono:

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

yep i am with you man, i never beat around the fking bush, if my girl is getting on my nerves, she knows about it.
The fk she know if she ever want to try to get the power, she will be stepping over the line.
3 warnings max then she gets nexted.
If cardinal rules broken, no warning, no matter wat she gets nextd.
I love being a man, have some fking balls, she needs you, you dont need her!!

 

[illtl]

alright, im going to try my best to put this into words, in a relationship between a woman and a man. the man got the balls, understood? it doesnt matter how hot your girl is, looks can mean whole different thing, ur girl can a hot as fuk but be a real b1tch, cold hearted one. so never ever put her on a pedstal why? because you'll give her the power, when you give her the power she can make u do ANYTHING, give up sunday night football, give up ur friends, fuking give up ur ride! the first moment ur girl steps out of line, u push her back 10 feet before the line so she doesnt cross it again, so let me explain that figure of speech, u make dont sure ur girl doesnt do it again. could be anything, stepping out of line could be any lines of disrespect. the level of disrespect determines on how bad u put it. to me, any form of disrespect is bad enough. and be straight up. dont beat around the bush, quit tryin to get ur girl jelous or give her ****ing hints. if u got a problem with her u phone her up or get her ot ur face and tell her, why would u be afraid of a 5'4 120 pound girl? NO u dont need to be a jerk or an ******* what you need to do is fuking grab ur balls and DONT TAKE ****, i hate guys who put the ***** on the pedstal, "how do i get her back" it should be more on "how can i improve myself so i can attract BETTER"
i was in a **** hole 3 weeks ago, now im fuking better than ever, how? i grabbed my balls!

i give you an example.

hoe: (phoing at 3am) hey baby can u pick me and my friends up?"
me:no im sleeping
hoe: ok bye.
Menext day) listen girl, i aint someone who u can call at 3am to get picked up, you mistaken me for some other guy

THATS all., i didnt need to yell at her, didnt need to give her a hint. i just told her straight up..

ALWAYS think with ur head, not your heart. yeh its hard to controll those feelings, i'll admit but yo will fuk up, this aint hollywood, u cant write a poem to a girl without her making fun of u with 3 of her friends while theres a black dildo up her ass. no its not that simple. u gotta say on ur TOES and manipulative these girls.

quit lettin ur girl walk all over you. Danny, aka DOAN DAN whaever ur fking name is along with ur other SN names wheyprotien, dasniwater, fuk, u have NO balls. you will NEVEr have them nor will you ever find new ones. ur girl took them, she has them and she will keep em' simple is that.

cheating.. if ur girl cheats shes DONE, simple is that.

GIRLS only add or enhance your happiness NOT TAKE IT AWAY!
if your girl leaves 2morrow, you will still do the same sh1t! work, work out, chill with the boys, eat sleep sh1t. nothing will change. and No girls dont make ur life complete. only you doo, you have the power to get up and do something, she doesnt tell u. she doesnt tell u to go to skool and get an edcuation. U DO. so dont listen to that bullsh1t"you make my life complete" yeh my ASS u do.

another thing, girls are incesure. no matter waht some are inscure by a lil and some by FAR you can easily tell them.. personally i fuking run from these b1tches fast as i can.
girls love putting make up. love spending hours doing it. while guys. take 30 min max to get ready. 10 min to shave. 10 min to shower. 10 min to dress.
girls LOVE going to socials only because they can show off their 200 dollar dress which they will forget after that one night.

so my conclsion is, in rough times, grab ur fuking balls. or better yET.

fuking ACKRITE

He's my cuz. we tell gurls who like to play games ACKRITE...**** my licence plate for my acura TL is

 

[Dayum itz jee]

You can be a "nice guy" but not to a point where she walks all over you..

 

[CCKazi007]

Good rule of thumb to pass tests is "would you do it if this was a stranger?" so in this case if a stranger called you at 3 a.m. and asked for a ride you won't give them a ride. Always works for me, you ALWAYS have to keep your balls your eventually the POWER is going to shift and she'll take everything away cuz she KNOWS she CAN get away with it. Very good thread and advice!

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

female friend of mine asked me to hold her purse

I simply said "no" in a casual voice, and left it at that.

she simply said "alright" and left it at that also.

Theres no need to use any more force than is necessary to get the job done.

 

[DJDamage]

the first moment ur girl steps out of line, u push her back 10 feet before the line so she doesnt cross it again, so let me explain that figure of speech, u make dont sure ur girl doesnt do it again.
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if u got a problem with her u phone her up or get her ot ur face and tell her

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Wrong. That may be fine if one of your male friends step out of line but when it comes to a chick, it is a different creature all together.

Think of a woman like you do with a child. Now how many times you went to a supermarket and saw one of those hyperactive kids running around and causing problems while the parent is chasing them around screaming and yelling at them to stop or else. What happens in this situation is that the parent will temporarily gain control of the child but the child has learned how to push his parent buttons and you can bet he will do it again in the near future.

The best method to deal with a woman as with a child is to reward her with good behavior by giving her attention and affection and taking it all away when she does something bad. She will learn pretty fast that you don't even need to say anything to her that you are not happy with her behaviour and she better straighten out. Sometimes silence is golden. It is a convert way of communicating. Read this article by Rollo about Overt and Covert way of communicating: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115575&highlight=communication

 

[fertileTurtle]

hoe: (phoing at 3am) hey baby can u pick me and my friends up?"
me:no im sleeping
hoe: ok bye.
Menext day) listen girl, i aint someone who u can call at 3am to get picked up, you mistaken me for some other guy

Damn, it's not like people don't have to be up the next day to go to work. Good handling that bullshiit.

GIRLS only add or enhance your happiness NOT TAKE IT AWAY!

Good shiit there. American males should wake up and listen to this kind of advice.

 

[Ratisson]

hey sexy_kuta, best fVCKING THREAD I'VE EVER READ.

I agree, guys dont have fvcking balls when it comes to women. They are afraid that if they stand up to her bullsh!t that she will walk. But the truth is that she wont, she'll only respect u more for not taking her crap.

I think this is the biggest problem guys have with girls, they are afraid of the confrontation. Do u thionk in the old days, and im talking about the old old days where the families lived in caves and the man had to hunt all day while the woman had to cook. In those days what the fvck to u think the man would do after a hard day of fighting and coming home to his cave house and his wife not having cooked dinner for him. He would slap her silly. He would fvck the living sh!t out of her. No man would put up with any female crap back then, and thats the ways guys have to start living their fvcking balless lives.

 

[sexy_kuta]

Wrong. That may be fine if one of your male friends step out of line but when it comes to a chick, it is a different creature all together.

Think of a woman like you do with a child. Now how many times you went to a supermarket and saw one of those hyperactive kids running around and causing problems while the parent is chasing them around screaming and yelling at them to stop or else. What happens in this situation is that the parent will temporarily gain control of the child but the child has learned how to push his parent buttons and you can bet he will do it again in the near future.

The best method to deal with a woman as with a child is to reward her with good behavior by giving her attention and affection and taking it all away when she does something bad. She will learn pretty fast that you don't even need to say anything to her that you are not happy with her behaviour and she better straighten out. Sometimes silence is golden. It is a convert way of communicating. Read this article by Rollo about Overt and Covert way of communicating: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115575&highlight=communication

well im basicly sayin the same sh1t ur sayin, i just put mine in figure of speech, when ur girl steps out of line, u tell her its unaccepable and it still conitues is it u punish her by taking the attention away, or my favorite one is the slience treament, you are right about the kids and woman philosphy. i cant disagree with you on that. but the point im gettin across is that the first moment ur girl steps out of line u push her back 10 feet meaning, u tell her that U will NOt accept any sh1t. for an example. if a girl flakes me for her friend, i tell her straight "listen girl if you gonna play games and waste my time then just erase my number and dont borther calling me." and i would state to her that there wouldnt be a next time. if she contiues to do it for 3 times then by then i would cut her off because id ont have time for immature girls who cant even fuking respect me

 

[sexy_kuta]

hey sexy_kuta, best fVCKING THREAD I'VE EVER READ.

I agree, guys dont have fvcking balls when it comes to women. They are afraid that if they stand up to her bullsh!t that she will walk. But the truth is that she wont, she'll only respect u more for not taking her crap.

I think this is the biggest problem guys have with girls, they are afraid of the confrontation. Do u thionk in the old days, and im talking about the old old days where the families lived in caves and the man had to hunt all day while the woman had to cook. In those days what the fvck to u think the man would do after a hard day of fighting and coming home to his cave house and his wife not having cooked dinner for him. He would slap her silly. He would fvck the living sh!t out of her. No man would put up with any female crap back then, and thats the ways guys have to start living their fvcking balless lives.

x2, guys are afraid of confrontation, they are afraid that they're girl might leave because she has control and that HE wont find another girl like her.. bullsh1t! if u had control in the first place, she wouldnt leave on confrontation , she might fuk around with ur head"if u gonna talk to me like that then leave" if ur girl pulls something like that. tell her to leave. i fuking put 100 bucks on the line that she will call back within a week! because girls are incesure

 

[KneghtRyder]

all this from a 16 year old indian dude...and they say indians dont have game..you proved them wrong

 

[insanity]

it's true. ever notice how it's always the guys that seem like there being an a-hole to their girlfriend by telling her how it's going to be and the nice guys always say i don't know what she sees in him, he's such a prick. those guys haven't quite grasped the fact that the more you worship the ground that these women walk the more their going to get stomped on.

women really don't make sense. the other day my woman was watching oprah and there was this guy whose woman was whining that her man was always mean to her but he was just calling the shots and obviously it worked cause she was still with him. my woman then said i would slap a guy if he acted all demanding like that to me. so i tested her. like a demanding brat, i said how about you cook me up some hamburgers. she said o.k and proceeded to the kitchen like a good little girl. what the hell?

 

[sexy_kuta]

girls are incesure they will say something then do something different.. its funny how a girl can say "oh im not like that! im not a slut" then watch her get ganged banged. but not all girls are like this, if they were, there wouldnt be such thing as quailty dating

those guys who girls claim that their jerks are not jerks, there real men, they dont take ****, they reward thier gfs once a while depending on her good behaviour. the more she behaves, the better he treats her.

if your a nice guy. U DONT have to change, but you need to grab ur balls and u gotta hold ur ground thats alL! theres nothing wrong with holding the door for ur girlfriend or giving her rides once a while but when it becames a habbit. u stam ur foot down. u tell her face to face. embrace the actions! thats the weak spot. girls can talk the talk but cant wallk the walk! their weakness is their actions, thats why they are good at gossiping. so get her face to face and tell her what she did wrong and that u expect 0 torlerance, make it seem that there wont be a next time, be harsh... that way it will scare her. if she does it again.. just remind her briefly....3rd time shes gone. depending on the level of disrespect she gave you.

woman dont make sense at all but we gotta learn to work with that.

 

[sexy_kuta]

all this from a 16 year old indian dude...and they say indians dont have game..you proved them wrong

age is just a number and be being indian( hindu punjabi) is nothing but a sterotype. im me and only me.

 

[sexy_kuta]

This may be excellent advice for you two dudes and me, but not so great for those types of dudes who don't attract very many hot babes, I know that at least 10% of the hottest babes are attracted to me so I can take the control, because I can quickly replace that girl, you two dudes may be in my situation, but many are not, so if they lose the hot babe they have they could be by themselves for a very long time. :nono:

attraction is a whole different game bro, gotta work with what u have. if u dont have the looks then work on the other side. your whole vibe, your peronsonaility, ur body lanagage, your confidence,etc... whats the different between a hb10 and hb5? they both breathe eat and sleep and sh1t right? u can attract hot girls either wya, you just need to improve yourself.. looks is powerful, but u can also make your other chartacter powerful as well, my confidence shines through anything, Im determine. i GRAB what i want. i got goals that people can see. I LIsten and respect things. all of those are attractive traits. yet not one of them are looks!. its a scale man, u gotta balance it out. NOT everyone is hot. but yet not every hot person is confident

 

[sexy_kuta]

bump. Guys need to read this more,
there aint enough guys with balls out there

 

[DJDamage]

well im basicly sayin the same sh1t ur sayin

No its not the same. I advocate behavioral communication while you advocate verbal.

when ur girl steps out of line, u tell her its unaccepable and it still conitues is it u punish her by taking the attention away

Its not as easy as it seems. First you need to know why your girl stepped out of line. Then you need react appropriatley to get the results you want. Punishing her for not knowing the reason will not magically solve the problem but it will resurface (Fvck's sake's I sound like Dr Phil here). It usually all comes down to interest level's and the type of girl she is. High interest level's from your girl with a good head on her shoulders with you being a DJ is the best recipe. Think about it.... if you are a DJ you got tons of girls running after you,,,,,your girl knows you can replace her with in a blink of an eye..... which brings it do the core issue: would you really tolerate bad behaviour and tell her to grow up???!! NO! you just bump her because you got other girls to see who won't give you hard time. THE FEAR OF BEING BUMPED FOR OTHER GIRLS IS THE FEAR THAT WILL INCREASE HER ATTRACTION IN YOU AND WILL ENSURE THAT SHE WON'T DISRESPECT YOU.

or my favorite one is the slience treament

So now you are going to use the same tactic they use against us. Any girl tries to use the silence treatment on me will not work because it's purpose is to get arise out of me and make me worry and cave in to her demands (like she is always used to from dating AFC'S). When they see that it doesn't work and I am the same cheerful carefree guy they end up abondening this dreadful tactic. Don't use tactics like that its counterproductive and you would look like a wuss.

if a girl flakes me for her friend, i tell her straight "listen girl if you gonna play games and waste my time then just erase my number and dont borther calling me."

By giving her ultimatum's and threatening her you just proved to her how little power you have in this relationship. If she flakes on you for a friend then she wasn't that interested in you to begin with and she won't really care if you don't see her again.

if she contiues to do it for 3 times then by then i would cut her off because id ont have time for immature girls who cant even fuking respect me

Respect is earned never given. Why the magic number 3? so she is off the hook 2 times but the third time is the big 'no no'?? As I stated before your girl needs to realise that she can be easily replaced with a snap of a finger by another girl and its not done with telling her but with her seeing it with her very own eyes.