"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ball is now in my court?

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Ok guys, I ve been calling this girl for a week now. Called her up twice last week . Then she calls me 2 nights ago for the first time around 10pm on a sunday. (i figured it should be ok to pick up the phone since its sunday).

BTW, quick background about this chick
-she's 18 but dated 2 guys that I know off over the age 19
-definitely not a virgin
-we've had rapport
-I work with her but I rarely see her now that we have exchanged numbers
-Didnt get her anything for V-day, even though this other fool did.


To make long short I picked up her phone call... she asked me a question

Me: Hello michelle? Hello? (her name wasn't michelle, but the reason for saying michelle was because earlier when I called her even though she had my number, she was like "who is this?hello? who are you" which I felt was somewhat disrepectful cuz knowing that she couldve deleted my number from her cell)
HB: MICHELLE!!!? Call me back if you know who u are talking to. *hangs up

I call her back

Me:Hey, bla bal bla
HB: what isle would I find the whip cream at cause I'm baking something?..
Me: bla bal bal
HB: bla bla bla
Me: bla bla bla
HB: where are you at?
Me: Friends place..

Me: So, what are you doing next saturday? (its been over a week now since I got her number, so I figured i should ask her out)
HB: What's today? the 18th..
Me: Lets hang out. I owe you a couple of dates.
HB: jeez...I called you cause I was just asking the whip crea
Me: Look, let me know by wednesday if you can hang out, if not that's cool too. Well, I got to go. Ok bye
HB: oh ok bye.

I send her a text:
Me: I know what you are gona do with the whip cream
HB: COCHINO =) *cochino means bad I think in spanish

Next Night

She calls around 3pm but I didn't pick up. I thought I'd make her pay the price for not putting enough effort for calling me and for not giving me a direct answer whether she could hang out next saturday. Well, she did call me but, it was for a stupid illogical question.

I am not gona pick up the goddam phone or answer any text for another week. What an effing looser...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow this chick seems to have 0 intrest level i mean girls with LOW intrest will still give you the time of day
 
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christz said:
wow this chick seems to have 0 intrest level i mean girls with LOW intrest will still give you the time of day
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Im new to the whole dating thing.. but normally, women who are interested would ask you or give you hints that they want to hang out. Yes?
 
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christz said:
wow this chick seems to have 0 intrest level i mean girls with LOW intrest will still give you the time of day
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Yeah, she couldve text messaged me or something if she could hang out
 
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verysuave said:
Im new to the whole dating thing.. but normally, women who are interested would ask you or give you hints that they want to hang out. Yes?
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girls that are more dominate will give hints that they want you to ask them but even the most hard assed women will still ask if you want to do something.. or if you suggest they will agree with excitement..

however your girl is not doing anything... i would step up your game a little read the bible you can start there
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I wonder sometimes how her past 2 boyfriends got in her pants.. U look at these mexican fobs and they were chubby, ok looking, and short and very un interesting. It makes you wonder sometimes what was it about them that made her spread her legs for them.

I had mad game with this chick at work. U cant even imagine. This chick who works with her told me she was talking about me. Oh well, gona next her.. EF it. Ef this efing dating crap
 
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