Baldness and Rejection

[Jeffst1980]

You look completely fine. Honestly, plenty of girls will dig your looks. Stop being so insecure and wasting your youth worrying about your appearance. Plenty of balding men are getting laid, and you know this.

 

[blackwolf]

yeah, you probably look better than most of the guys on here. theres nothing wrong with you lol. i use to be like you. i hated my nose, ears (yes they are a bit big) especially my hair.. i hated thinning when i was younger. but now i dont care at all and i have accepted it. if you don't accept it, it will ruin you. and women can see all this insecurity when they look at you. you have to stand tall and proud about yourself. i only started recently shaving my hair every couple weeks to a #1 guard - sometimes i do a #2 cause they both look good to me. but any longer and my hair just looks silly with the thinning at front. i love not having hair... i hated combing it and fixing it. big weight off my shoulders.

i think you have that disorder, bdd. it's more than just your bald hair. live life without worrying what others think.. live it for you not others. don't try to change yourself just for women. doesn't fix anything. you need to love yourself before you can do anything else in life!!!

im not the best lookin guy but i put myself about 6/10 or 7 cause i FEEL that way when im out. just yesterday a girl im starting with complimented on me saying how cute i am and other things i won't mention... heh. probably also cause she saw me with other girls.

i feel good about myself and that shines right off me to women out there. they love that. CONFIDENCE!

 

[Kailex]

I just have to thank nature, oh and my parents too for blessing me with agonizing genetics

cya

Enjoying the tea party there, Nancy?

You'll never get out of that mentality like that. And no one could ever possibly convince you otherwise.

Good luck feeling sorry for yourself the rest of your life.

 

[vatoloco]

Boo fvcking hoo! So you're bald[ing]. Big. Fvcking. Deal. Someone call a freaking Waahmbulance! We have a severe case of "Woe is me!" here!

Dude, I looked at your pics and while you're not a bad-looking guy here (no homo), you just exude that "Nice Guy" vibe that's probably turning women off right off the bat.

I started thinning in my twenties. By my late twenties, bald spot on top was pretty much well established and the front was getting thinner. I said "Fvck it!" and shaved it all off. One of the best decisions in my life!

Ever since I started not giving a sh!t whether women like me or not because I'm bald or not, I've had even more success with women! Now, don't get me wrong. There are some women who will never be attracted to me because they want a guy with a full head of hair. They just don't dig bald guys. Just like I don't dig fat, ugly chicks.

But you're lucky. Like I said, you're not ugly. Once you get past your hang up, you will be successful with girls. Well, the ones who don't care about hair.

When you do decide to take the plunge, experiment to see what works best for you. Clean shaven. Goatee. Five o'clock shadow. Try several and see which one works best. For me the goatee worked best. At the office I look and am the no non-sense guy who takes sh!t from no one. While I'm out riding my bikes, I look and am the badboy, biker type that women love.

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As a bonus, let me give you a couple of examples of how bald can be sexy. I was out on a date with this girl who I took for a bike ride.

Her: "Oh my! Did you shave for me?"
Me: "Sweetheart, I shave for me! "

She gets on the back of the bike and she's rubbing my head at stops. She later moves downward to grab other things.

Another girl I was at a bar with:

Her: "Wow, the bald look fits you really well. You have the perfect head shape for the look."
(Note that girls who don't dig will tell you your head looks funny, your ears stick out, etc. -- when women like you, you suddenly have perfect features )

Me: "Of course I do sweetheart!"
Her: "Can I rub it?"
Me: "Hey, you have to earn it first!"
Her: "LOL. So what do I have to do?"
Me: "Well, promise to be a good girl and I'll let you."
Her: "Okay I promise!"
Me: "Alright, knock yourself out..."

She then rubs my head with her hands. An hour later, I was at her place, fvcking her.

 

[blackwolf]

my date before pulled off my beanie and was rubbing my shaved head for like 5 minutes non stop. she fukin loves it.

@ vatoloco
do they really say LOL in real life ?

 

[vatoloco]

@ vatoloco
do they really say LOL in real life ?

Haha! No they don't. I'm just being lazy and don't want to type: *she laughs out-loud at this point*

Though I've been knows to actually say "lol" (as in phonetically, "lull") when with my friends just to fvck with them.