Balding. Should i shave it all or keep what i have?

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

FlyGuy

Master Don Juan

Aug 14, 2003

I'm just trying to give you guys some advice... er, not even actually advice, just some... insight maybe... into what A LOT of girls DO think.

OK then, in your experience how do women generally feel about guys that are losing their hair or bald? Obviously there are women out there that just don't like it and some that do, but what I want to know is what women in general feel about it. Like it? Hate it? Don't care? If women don't like it, does it automatically blow your chances of hooking up or is it something that you can overcome with other things (muscles, personality, humor, etc.)?

Last edited: Aug 14, 2003

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.