Balding. Should i shave it all or keep what i have?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

FlyGuy

Master Don Juan

Aug 14, 2003

I'm just trying to give you guys some advice... er, not even actually advice, just some... insight maybe... into what A LOT of girls DO think.

OK then, in your experience how do women generally feel about guys that are losing their hair or bald? Obviously there are women out there that just don't like it and some that do, but what I want to know is what women in general feel about it. Like it? Hate it? Don't care? If women don't like it, does it automatically blow your chances of hooking up or is it something that you can overcome with other things (muscles, personality, humor, etc.)?

Last edited: Aug 14, 2003

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.