"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Balding Problem

NeedToImprove

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im 30 years old and since 2004 ive been losting hair very quickly, i even have areas of my head with almost no hair, plus my hair is very thin and weak, which makes it extremely difficult to comb and its kind of a turnoff and a nuisance specially in windy day. when i cut it it looks acceptable but after a couple of weeks / a month it becomes a mess again. i thought seriously about shaving it all off or making a buzz cut (like soldiers use) but the idea of seeing me with my head shaved is just difficult to accept plus i dont know if it will look good on me or if it will adjust to my face structure at all, so its kind of a dillema...

i will put my photos here,they are a lil old (2004 / 2005) but it gives an idea of my face structure ( im a bit older now, but im in the gym which hopefully will gimme a stronger jawline and franly im seeing improvements) and also you guys can give your opinions about what i exposed above. it will be a hard task to do, very hard indeed, but if its the only way....

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the second one is from last year (december i guess). this has nothing to do with the topic, but most girls tell me i look fine in the first photo, any ideas
why?

well i had to share the problem, i just dont know whats best.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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[S]alvatore

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You're a good looking guy, I think it will suit you extremely well if you shaved most of it off.
 

john_1234

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in my opinion, some guys can pull off shaved heads better than others. w/ a head structure like yours, i think you'd be able to pull it off very well.
 

DasaniWater

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seriously...

in my opinion, ud look more like a bad ass with a shaved head
 

Alittude

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Man your lucky I think you would look awesome with it all gone. It's in my family and I really don't want to lose hair because I am total opposie at the moent with big curly hair. What are some things to do to prevent it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Socialreject

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I agree, a shaved look will look good on you...

Alternatively, you can try and regrow your hair, there are ways although they do not work on everyone and take a while before you see results. There is always the options to get hair transplanted, but unless you do a lot of transplants (which is expensive) it will look very thin.

Anyways, if you want to have a stab at regrowing your hair, check out regrowth.com.
 

DonWhoan

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Take it from me a (#1 setting on the clippers) some women love guys with shaved heads, my girl is one of them and she is fine!! Plus, the bonus part is now you have to heads to stick in her!!!!!! Like they say: 2 heads are better than 1.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Sorry to bump this old ass thread, but I recommend you get on Propecia. I've seen some amazing results with it, especially if the baldness is treated early on.
 

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Dude, you can absolutely pull the shave or buzz cut off!!! I have been doing mine for several years and if I let my hair grow it is thick, but at least I know what I would be like if I go bald. I haven't paid for a haircut in years. Go buy you a set of clippers and get busy!! Depending on the women, some love the look.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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benny_hill

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-=Ice-T=- said:
Sorry to bump this old ass thread, but I recommend you get on Propecia. I've seen some amazing results with it, especially if the baldness is treated early on.
Propecia will take the lead out of your pencil - shave it buddy - a bald head is phallic.

There's nothing worse than a balding guy trying to hide the fact with comb-overs or other "disquises".

Make sure you keep it shaved though - every second day if not every day.
 

Cry For Love

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OP, do you think this guy has problems with ladies? And yet he is completely bald. How come? Think about it bro, the answer is in front of you.
 
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