"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Balancing 2 girls in 1 Night? Help

godjwood

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2005
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
How to balance 2 girls in 1 night? I have to do family stuff till probably 8 or so, leaving for Europe on Tues. so they all wanna do family crap.

Plan for Monday: Hangout w/1 girl at say 9pm, for about 2hrs. then say i gotta go home for family stuff. Bring her home.

Then go get chick #2 and hangout w/her the rest of the night.

Ideas/comments/suggestions?

How would u guys handle this?

Also i'm hanging out w/a girl on Tues. before i leave, so i guess girl #3.

My line for all of them, it's a little corny but good, was gonna be like hey i wanted to give u something for New Yr's Eve but obviously i won't be here but here it is...then give her a kiss. Well give all 3 girls the same line and a kiss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Captain Popular

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2005
Messages
119
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
TN
Sometimes corny is what they want, a girl would prolly think that is cute or sweet rather than corny???
but in my opinion that's a good little move.

-no hicky's
-have gum
-make sure you're phone is on silent
-leave woth them wanting more...leave when they dont expect it, i promise you will think that's stupid but it will come back 10 fold.
 

godjwood

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2005
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
-leave woth them wanting more...leave when they dont expect it, i promise you will think that's stupid but it will come back 10 fold.

Huh?
 

Captain Popular

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2005
Messages
119
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
TN
Leave when the passion and energy is high...she will be wanting you to stay and when you leave all she will be able to think about is how much she wants you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top